I think I'm with you this time round K. I used to stick up for it, purely for the fact that it got people kick started, especially with opening girls etc. However it messed with my head quite a bit looking back at it all. I felt I needed to do things I that didn't suit me just so I could get a lay. This made me feel helpless as I never wanted to be a fraud to myself or be someone I am not.

Now I know I am able to celebrate being ME... and get the girls!