I've got a few dates coming up this week from online, the current theory in my head is flaking on the date is often caused from sheer laziness or anxiety rather than maliciousness so I get them to choose the date and time - the complete opposite of what American pua reccomends and I've got better results.

Yeah i'm fine once I get talking to someone in the club but my approach anxiety is messing with me. I'm newly single after a long while so getting back to dating is a bitch