Nice to meet people here.

I'm not bad at getting dates from pof and Tinder and but so many when it comes to the day of the date end up giving a legitimate sounding excuse and don't come. We reaarange and they have a legitimate sounding excuse again. Its literally happened three or four times to me now. Everything is fine, having good chat, arrange a place and a day a few days before, message an hour or two before the time of the date to make sure we are still on and then - bam they have a legitimate excuse or don't reply at all.

Does anyone have any advice to stop this or advice what to talk about in the days running up to the date? I find its a tightrope of keeping them interested and not forgetting me whilst not revealing too much about myself removing the 'mystery' about meeting me. Its driving me crazy.

Thanks!