Yes I am going out too.

I have flicked through Tinder and found very nearly zero quality women in my local city (population 160,000). POF & OKCupid I am on, but it's all to easy to waste way too much time on it, so am not putting too much effort into.

Meanwhile I have been talking to "quality" girls in their mid 35s - 40s upwards that I know socially about how they meet future boyfriends. It's normally at private social functions & via mutual friends or through work. Sometimes it's at semi-public events such as private views for gallery openings. Occasional evening courses too. However pure public spaces such as "in the street" is always an absolute no-no, likewise shopping malls, likewise night clubs. There have been one or two art gallery confessions, plus holiday romances where different rules clearly apply(!) Of course they could be lying but from the strength of reaction I doubt it.

But where DO the hot girls go? Well a number of them seem make very easy money as webcam girls. e.g. Via CraigsList I strayed into mynaughtydreams.com and the site seems to have a huge number of hot girls right here in my local city. I guess they are all impoverished students, not sure.

Of course you need to start paying money to message anyone and it's c. £1/day for what is presumably mainly pornography.

Anyone here pulled any girls off a webcam site - and if so were they all just hookers?