You're saying to just keep doing what i'm doing because once I start to feel comfortable with this small talk, she will sense that, and will be less likely to walk away?

I guess since I can't think of anything else (other than maybe a 'routine' which i've never tried to use before but has been suggested to me) then that's what i'll do. I am at a few hundred approaches now though and really don't fell 'that 'uncomfortable'

(but seriously, gaz from geordie shore doesn't have to even speak at all, lol. He's a big time celeb in the eyes of the young girls he bangs)

thanks for replying