I'm 45 and in good shape......however I FINALLY decided to change things as I was continually being mucked around by women, and constantly watched other guys get the girls....so the kickstart was a Kezia Noble workshop in London....it really gave me a kick in the arse. Since then after relentlessly studying the likes of Julian Blanc/Todd Valentine things have got so much better.....my old needy mentality has gone forever. The point of this post is to give guys hope that things CAN change for you, but to do this you need to really push yourself out of your comfort zone. I'm continually learning and I'm sure this forum will help me even further.