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Default Girlfriend Broke up but decided to stay. - 10-11-2018, 03:46 PM

Hi guys,
so story short. Im with my girlfriend one year. We are living together for half year. We've been arguing lately, and my gf decided to break up with me yesterday because we argue too much. In the middle of breaking up she said shes confused and she needs time to think. Today morning she said that she still wants to try with me but she dont know how it will be. I've been emotional yesterday I know I shouldn't but it's hard when you hear stuff like this from your gf. Today she obviously act differently, she said that today she just need to be left alone. She's going for a party because they closing her work, and its farewell party from everyone from work. I was supposed to go there too but im sick. I don't really know how to approach all of this. How should I act now ? She seems cold and indifferent but she still wants to be with me. How should I act about party and how should I stand my ground on this ? Any advise would be appreciated. Thanks
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Default 10-11-2018, 04:09 PM

One of you needs to leave. Today.
Either move out or move her out. Today.


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Default 11-11-2018, 03:12 AM

^^^This sounds like harsh advice and you'll probably feel awful doing it, but it's 100% the best way to avoid a ton of pain and drama.


“As to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.” - Emerson
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Default 28-11-2018, 03:40 AM

Well eventually she went for this party. She was hitting on one guy, I found out about it. Next day I gave her a chance (idiot), and for few days she wasn't really trying, treating me like shit so I told her, if that won't change I'm leaving. She said it's too much for her so I told her I need to leave this relationship. She said she will move out, it was 2 weeks ago and she's still here. When I was taking down the pictures from living room I asked her why you still keep this here, and she said she had no time and Im only complaining whole relationship :O So I told her that she fucked up everything and have no right to talk to me like that. Since then I just ghost her. We have 2 bedroom house, we have 2 seperate rooms but it's still shit. Im waiting for her to move out but I don't even want to talk her when she's gonna do it because I don't really fancy even looking at her anymore. I just want to move on, she should get out of my life like she wanted, no dignity in staying here for so long ... I will give her 2 more weeks, and either I will move her out or im going to move out myslef
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