Why Failing is Good (Benefit from a bad Set)
 

Im going to speak to you about why Failure is one of the best things that can happen to a PUA . Everyone playing the game wants to be perfect and f close every set they approach but im going to steal your imagination for a minute and show you a better way to think !

What ive noticed from people i have met in the past and i still meet today is that because they are scared to fail , they take one of the many methods out there in PUA Land and cling to it like a lifeline and hold it so tightly they miss what's really going on !

I have no problems with this as i use a mixture of techniques (as described in my introduction) but what i find is that people go out .... put these techniques into practise .... fail ..... and then go out and use the exact same thing under the impression that 'i only failed because SHE ect ect' and 'it went wrong because SHE so and so'

We're all going to crash and burn ... that is a fact but what we're going to do is suceed more than we fail and if we do fail, fail small and suceed big right ? So all im suggesting is that whenever a set goes badly

a) dont go into autopilot and take the failure passively and blame others
(i guarantee if 1000 guys approached her that same night at that same time, one would suceed , have a think about that because next time that's gonna be you)

b) dont attach emotion to failure
(why should we let someone we dont know have such a profound effect on our happiness ?! Its silly when you think about it . As RJ says , one failed set does not snap every vagina closed within a 100 mile radius)

and the most important
c) dont be scared to think about what you did wrong and how you could change and improve (think of each failure as a little private lesson from your inner master PUA)

See every failure as a lesson to propel you into your next sucess !
In fact ,don't even see it as a failure , becuase if we learn from it and grow from it , can we really say we failed ? No .

Thanks
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As they say in NLP

There is no failure only feedback.

The more mistakes you make the more lessons you learn and the better you become.

Good to see your up to speed on your NLP , good man

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Oh yeah old school Korzybski style :cool: