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Flake's guide to flaking. -
07-12-2009, 12:01 PM
Yo boyos,
Now this topic is particually complicated and I encourage you to share your views. Many of you guys are awesome and have/will hook a fair few women you're not interested in and maybe cos of some drinky poos you've strung them along a bit too far. This seems to a problem for me - I'm not trying to brag as this article may imply (I am good at attracted women I don't fancy but I am far more useless around ones I do - see my graph). When a woman makes it clear she's attracted to you, her feelings come into play and its not right to fuck with these  . But, as I have done, stringing them along further only makes it worse. <So what's the best way to show disinterest without upsetting or offending her?) <Allow me to describe your options sirs)Ignoring her This is the favoured method of one of my friends. He doesn't want to tell women hes not interested and so instead he ignores them as much as he can. Now this method works though initially it will probably make her chase you more. However it is also obvious, and if its obvious it can be upsetting. We all know when women are ignoring us and for the unharden soul its not very pleasant. Friendzoning I have flirted with this idea alot. After all wouldn't it be nice to have some girl friends to speak highly of you and introduce you to more women. But this is essentially the same as women's "lets be friends speech". Its not as upsetting as other methods but its still very cliché and quite transparent. Putting her off This is probably the worst suggestion but it has to be mentioned. There are many ways to put a women off as you can imagine but reputation spreads and in this case, it doesn't help being cruel to be kind. Flake's method My proposal is this; limit the amount of time you spend together; do 'friend' stuff - meet in groups; maintain her as a friend but be honest about what you want (do not say you want to bang her friends!); but most importantly don't let anything escalate!! I'd really like your views guys as I'm only a beginner with this and I suspect many of you are experts     
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07-12-2009, 08:40 PM
Why not just be upfront and totally honest with 'Sorry but i'm not interested'. If it was the other way round I'm sure you'd like to know where you stand and more than likely respect that person for telling you straight.
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08-12-2009, 02:47 AM
yeah man thats true but I find that hard after I've lead a girl on too much. Maybe im too nice and I probably shouldnt lead girls i dont like on in the first place
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08-12-2009, 01:21 PM
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Of course it's all easier said than done, there's no good way to give someone bad news at the end of the day. However fobbing someone off could lead them to think you are unsure and give them hope that you really do want them. Just be upfront. It's what you would expect surely?
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08-12-2009, 03:22 PM
Yeah you're totally right man, I just want to find a less crushing way to get rid of a girl but at the end of the day I suppose you gotta make it clear what you want right at the begining
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08-12-2009, 04:03 PM
That's fair enough dude. I guess we have to take each situation as it comes and deal with the matter head on when it rears it's ugly head.
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Paris Hilton Builds Dog Mansion -
15-07-2011, 02:15 AM
Paris Hilton is known globally for her unwavering love for canines. She is most of the time spotted with one of her pets so when it made to the news that the hotel heiress built a dog mansion which is an exact replica of her pink Los Angeles, CA mansion, it didn’t surprise anyone anymore.
An Arkansas-based breeders of Chihuahuas claims that recently, the hotel heiress who has a strong fascination for long haired puppies bought a couple of dogs from them. Chihuahua Lots of Love is composed of a group of Arkansas Chihuahua breeders who, breeds and sells dogs. Most of the short haired dogs featured on their site are really charming and cute. Paris Hilton really likes long haired dogs which they also sell on the site. It was reported that Paris opted to get her dogs from Chihuahua Lots of Love because she believes that Arkansas Chihuahua breeders are the experts in breeding and tending for canines. Hilton who is known for her extravagance built a pink mansion for her brood of short haired dogs and long haired puppies. The dog mansion is complete with all the luxuries any other mansion has. Real lucky dogs! If you want to have your own pet, Chihuahua Lots of Love is the perfect place to get your future babies. Arkansas Chihuahua breeders are the best when it comes to breeding canines. For more information, log on to Arkansas Long Hair Chihuahua Breeder | Puppies For Sale | Home Raised
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She is an adult. She can make her own decisions. If you tell her FROM THE VERY START that you do not want a relationship, then it is her decision whether to take it forward, knowing the consequences if she does fall for you. I have been meeting girls lately, and being honest saying I don't want a relationship. They still end up meeting you and usually will still end up fucking you.. If you live your life trying to not hurt women's feelings, then you're fighting a losing battle.
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