The 0% Flake Method By ijjjji
 

The 0% Flake Method

At least 98% of you guys seem clueless about this, even if I posted it 20 times before. So WAKE THE FUCK UP and listen carefully. Ive tried to educate the community about this since 2005, and Im sick and tired of it!


WHY THEY FLAKE

The future is UNKNOWN. So putting stuff there (in future), plays into the brains tendencies towards worrying about uncertainties.

Think about it, just like you would probably think/worry about an upcoming CAREER AFFECTING meeting at work, girls will think about an upcoming meeting with a new man. This process can BUILDS STRESS to a point where people end up NERVOUS/FREAKED OUT, just because of the TOTAL TIME SPENT THINKING ABOUT IT. Other negative states can also come from this.. doubt, laziness, boredom, feeling tied down, procrastination etc..

Now, do you see why a girl who seems SO EAGER when you set a time/date, will nearly always end up canceling? GOD its so simple! Come on guys! Dont make me have to explain this shit ever again!!


THE RULE - ALWAYS AVOID PRE-ARRANGING

-No pre arranging!! (Duh! Read the above again if you are too dumb to get this by now!!)
-No talk about future meets!! (Creates similar effect!)
-Parry with "Lets find a time later!" or "Lets meet right now!" if she hints about meeting or tries to set a time/date.
(NOTE, that you can still text or call her! You just have to dodge this ONE topic.)


MAKING MEET HAPPEN

Method#1 - Text/phone-flirt until she hints for meet. If she does, respond something like "Wanna pop over and watch a movie?"

Method#2 - When everyone goes partying (22:30ish on a Fri/Sa) text her something like "cheeeers u out having fuuun?" Ideally you will both be somewhere drinking at this time, and eventually (preferably late) meet at some club/bar.


HOW FUCKING SIMPLE WAS THAT, YOU FUCKING RETARDS?!! SO, NO MORE FLAKE COMPLAIN POSTS! PLEEEEEASE!

(Sidenote: Before I swore by method#1. Now I use #2 exclusively, since less thinking involved.)

Good post, you certainly have good points.
And I agree, our members are all retards. Stupid morons.




:p

I'm pretty sure 90% of the people here know this. In fact isn't this MM 101? - Make sure you've built enough comfort so she won't be afraid of seeing you again, if you haven't built enough comfort don't try and meet her.

It has been 5 or 6 years since I read through Mystery's books but isn't "Game" pretty much the gateway to all of this and MM the first thing everyone looks at?

Is it that point in time where the old advice is now so old it's new again? Time to write a book...

@ 6pm ish

"Hey, are you free for a drink? x"

wow cant wait to hear this....
I also have my own 0% flake method - date yourself and be a loner that also works

who the fuck are you




yeh i really hope you dont


my entire week is booked up in advance - you are talking from a non abundant mindset





Most chicks will waste weeks before they will man up and hint or directly ask you out --its innefficient


. chances are she wont even notice her txt because she is out having fun and you will just come across as a needy chode- because you can only fire that off once


yeh really opened my eyes there


I just dont like this post full stop, non abundant mindset, smacks of sitting at home sending txts to birds on the chance they are free.
anyone over 18, certainly over 25 HAS A FUCKING LIFE -- if you wait to catch them on the offchance they are free to create an instant meet you will be a sad lonely needy man.

my entire week these days is booked in advance , lots of hot girls weeks are booked in advance

this for me killed off his whole post!

For guys with such busy schedules everyone spends a lot of time on internet forums...

Just sayin'... I'm not booked up fully, ever.

my busy shedule is all absed around girls
can you kindof see then how you arent booked up? :)

im at work now-- which unfortunatly is a time i cannot date girls, but i am getting paid while i write this (a decent amount) so its no hardship

it's not his post guys, he pasted the same stuff in another thread and did again here, it was written by some yank PUA (ijjjji) in the past. Flows you did label it but stick an intro line in in a different font next time or something so people can clearly see it's not your personal live opinion more easily....you've confused everyone mate!

PS

My approach is the exact opposite, and I get very low flakeg and even the flakes usually end up with a solid later arrangement which is then kept.

I get a commitment to a pre arranged date and I also lay out the "rules of engagement" very clearly:

'If something comes up I'll let you know with plenty of notice, I expect the same courtesy from you of course. Also I will assume its still on unless one of us tells the other its not, even if were not calling/texting each other every five minutes'.

Basically I'm laying it out that I'm a busy but organised and reliable person and I expect them to be the same, no fucking around.