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Default Distance - 15-01-2022, 10:00 PM

Hello everyone,

I’m looking to get back in game, haven’t done for about ten years, use to sarge in Bristol and Cheltenham three of four nights a week, so if you’re in those area’s do let me know.

Anyway, I wanted to talk about distance.

More specifically how close a girl stands next to you and how it can tell you everything without them doing a dam thing, this can also be a subconscious action meaning they are doing it without even knowing themselves.

So firstly what do I really mean when I say “distance”.

Lets say a lady is standing roughly three feet away from you (you may want to measure this), now three feet is what I’d call a normal distance when you’re talking to someone, anyone really, friend, family member etc.

When a person, lets say a lady, stands within that three feet it means a lot and I know some of may say that it doesn’t or it maybe not that important but trust me it is everything.

EVERYTHING

Lets setup a setting for this and go a bit deeper into its meaning as well.

You are at a works party, everyone is having a good time, being social chatting etc, having a drink and all that. There are 3 of you in total chatting, two guys a girl, forming a kind of triangle. At the moment the distance between the three of you is equidistant (the same) which is should be really, it makes it easy to talk between the three of you and everyone feels comfortable.

Later in the evening, the three of you are talking again. However, this time rather that the three of you all facing each other, the girl is now roughly two and half feet from you and you are both now facing the other person in the triangle. This setting and social distance is now very different, it’s subtle to most but you need pick up on it and understand what it means 99 times out of 100. If the girl where to stand in front of you and move closer this would be to obvious, from the side and facing in is much more subtle and easier for the girl and everyone really, the conversation continues because nothing has really changed….or has it.

The girl is now in your bubble or personal space. Girls generally don’t do this unless they trust/fancy/really like you/want to flirt etc etc. Basically, if you like the girl this is a really really good thing for you.

For this next part I’ll do two scenario’s, one will be easier for the guy and the other more difficult.
First things first you need to understand that from this point on its totally up to you to act on the situation and info the lady is giving you.

She hasn’t said anything or really done much but its enough from a body language and distance point of view that she doesn’t stand this close to just anyone, for instance its you she is standing next to, not her boss who she hates or the boring bloke in the corner and not only is she standing next to you but its within both of your bubbles or personal space which means a lot.

Scenario one

Ok, you’ve got the info.

It’s good info.

Now what, she likes you, big deal, what are you going to do, when, how, etc etc

The other guy decides to go and get a drink. The lady stays.

This is now more info, she could have walked off with him, she didn’t.

She is staying within the bubble, I mean two and half feet is pretty close, that extra foot close or away is a big deal.

So now its just the two of you, at this point it is crucial to move things move forward very quickly. You can do this because you know she likes you, a lot. There is not point asking her boring questions or just doing nothing progressive, its pointless and a waste of time and will only impact her view on you negatively.

You: So now what?

(this is a very direct question and puts her on the spot, she could be direct back and say lets fuck or lean in a kiss you, or say that’s up to you. I think the most likely reply is I don’t know and she looks away and then back at you, this is perfect, she is highly unlikely to be very direct or forward, that is pretty much up to you. Now this again puts more pressure on you and you have to deal with it in the perfect way just like in the movies, you cant fuck it up and you wont with practice)

Her: I don’t know….

You: I haven’t told you this tonight yet but you look beautiful

(when you start to say I haven’t told you this your hand should be on her shoulder, do this very slowly and moving your head to its side so its close to your shoulder, maybe step in an extra half a foot before this, do this all at the same time, you have a window of a about 2 second to get all of this done. THIS NEXT BIT IS REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT when you say the words you look beautiful you need to be looking at her eyes, then mouth, eyes then mouth as you say that sentence.

Her: leans in to kiss you

That really is it, this can obviously play out in a number of way etc and could write maybe 10 scenarios but I’ll do another to keep it short and sweet.

Scenario 2

Will be continued in another thread to this

Hope someone finds this vaguely interesting

Cheers Lads
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