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Midas touch 28-12-2010 12:31 PM

Bad advice from Bobby Rio
 
Just received an email from Bobby Rio with this bollocks:

Hey,
One of the questions that I get a lot, and one
of the questions that we go over in Conversation
Escalation is how to respond when a woman
compliments YOU.
If you handle this wrong.. you run two big risks:
1. You can come across as over eager.
2. You can come across as boring and cold.
Personally, I always tried to play it too cool, and
came across a bit cold and boring... and any
attraction the woman felt... quickly vanished.

Over the years, I spent time watching some of
the best naturals I know flirt with women... I
began to really pay attention to how they would
respond when the woman showed some interest
with a compliment...

While cocky & funny doesn't work in all situations
I really believe that if you get nervous or don't
know how to react when a woman compliments
you, you're best bet is repsond in a cocky funny
sort of way.
Here are some examples:
"Wow, you're really into me aren't you?
"Look, I'm not like other guys. This compliment
thing isn't going to get you anywhere."
"Already starting with the compliments, huh?
Look, let's just get this over with... go buy
me the drink already."
"I'm not giving you my phone number, so
just stop with the compliments."
"I'm cute? You're cute too. What do you wanna
do about it?"
(Nice shirt/pants/etc) "Thanks! Would you like to
take it off me?"
What's great about the responses above, is that
they all continue to flirt, without making anything
awkward.

Now, as you get more confident and secure
around women, you can actually use the tension
to your advantage, and don't need to use humor
to difuse awkardness... but, in the meantime, if
you're looking for a good response.. any of
the above will do...
==> Check Conversation Escalation and learn
how to handle just about any sticking point you may
have with your conversation with women.
Take Care,

Bobby Rio

Utter shite. When somebody compliments you, just smile and say thank you!!! Midas touch

monkeybuster 28-12-2010 01:03 PM

See, I could see myself using it as a bit of playful banter, but only if you've got into a groove of banterish vibe. 9.5 times out of 10, I give gleaming smile and say thank you!

Midas touch 28-12-2010 01:32 PM

Maybe I would give this one a whirl: "You're cute," "Yeah, you too, what do you want to do about that?"


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