Right frame of mind
 

Well I had a pretty poor night.

Im pretty pissed off at myself for not opening any sets. I dont know what it was but I couldnt get in the right frame of mind. It wasnt approach anxiety or anything like that, it was almost as if I couldnt be bothered. Maybe all the sex iv been having this weekend , or just the poor quality of a sunday night on the town but I seen girls giving me lots of ioi's and me just doing nothing about it

So how do you guys get yourself back in the mood for sarging?

its hard if u have someone with u who is low energy. try opening a low energy group... even if they r ugly

not for the intent of fucking but just for a chat.... then keep doin so until u get in a zone.

u dont just have to approach hot women, can be lads girls anythin, just getting socially involved

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Joking aside, cool post bro, i liked it.

What a cracking post Adam. I love this part in particular :2guns:

Ok serious question here. U say dont chat up a bird u wudnt wanna fuck? For me tho i dont see hb10s, i see alot of hard work. I look at a fatty or a skank and just think - much MUCH easier lay! How do i sort this? I want fit girls but just settle for easy lays :-(

Read some more books on pick up... that should help

You need to stop boxing off hotties as hard and not so hot as easy. It's not as black and white as you make it out. You'd be suprised how little hot girls get chatted up, simply because guys assume this. Be the exception to this rule of thought.

There's nothing wrong in talking to girls you are actually physically attracted to. You will get further if you chat to girls YOU find physically attractive. However at the start of the night, there is nothing wrong with being social, chat to guys, chat to women you don't particularly find attractive etc. This will warm you up.....and I think there is nothing wrong with warm up sets, or getting yourself into a socialble mood.

Hell, I'm not sociable all the time....always happy marky!! No way.... I can be a grumpy old git

Have you tried finding some "power music"?
I have a certain set of songs in my mp3 that can turn my mood around and get me in the mood for sarging and talking to girls and really works.
It is explained more in "The Natural Art Of Seduction" so if thats a pua book that you possess it may worth be looking through it and gettin some tips.

You shouldn't have to get yourself in the mood to do anything, you either wanna do it or you don't. Anxiety is different to this, then you need to motivate yourself. I've found there is a fine line between not wanting to sarge, and making excuses for not approaching. Make sure you don't confuse yourself.

Yeah, I agree with, don't chat up someone you wouldn't wanna fuck (I didn't agree with this in the past, but have changed my view with experience).

If you wanna fuck the fattys then chat them up (which it sounds like you do!). If you wanna fuck the fitties then chat them up. If you wanna get easy lays with the fitties then you need to practice on the fitties and it will become easy. Its not like things being easy happens overnight.