Escalation / Change of subject
 

Hi Guys,

Had a great night out with Darood, Sapmi, Anthony and Madforit last night and we were stood there in the bar with Darood in set and Anthony winging him and Madforit turns to me and say's "Daroods doing the cube".

So at what point after you've opened and your just fluff talking do you break out stuff like the cube? and how do you segway into it?

Cheers

Retro

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I personally don't do the cube.

Interesting stuff - I haven't used the cube, and haven't used much scripted content in general.

Who knows, perhaps it could help me connect with women who I wouldn’t otherwise connect with. Darood might have something interesting to say about it – his game seemed pretty tight to be honest.

One PUA video I watched talked about ‘error’ – that is, if you are really good looking (and/or a slick talker), you can miss out key bits of the game and still get success (eg, not using disqualification; not DHV too much). If you don’t have this, you have less room for error, and might need other tools to get you to your goal (like proven DHV etc). Retro - I saw you talking to quite a few sets the other night and you seemed to be doing pretty well.

Interesting use of the ‘Shhh’ from Kowalski – audacious - I like it!

Personally , at first meet dont bother with the cube , it's a fun game to play later on down the line on a day 2 ect just to mess about but as K says , it's not a magic spell .

lol , as usual , RB being mot helpful i see

Ok then, on the back of don't do the cube, just escalation in general, you must at some point move from having the regular fluff stuff, to adding some sexual content or you would end up in the "freind zone"?

discuss :-)

If you could man that would be cool. All the stuff i've read is MM / Style etc, even the RSD tim stuff takes about the bubble of love stuff, but no matter what your doing (natural or a method) then you need to get to that point where your not doing fluff shit and want to show / build the attraction, so your deep long post would be greatly appreciated :-)

Retro

And on the back of what k says (as I do agree , u handsome boy u lol) . In response to escalating sexual energy ... Grow some balls , BE sexual and have intent ! Don't think what move should I do to escalate , just be alpha and look at her like she's already in your bed !

Have fun with ur sexual prowess , it's the best part ! U shouldn't worry about kissing her , u should be excited about it . Damn Im getting myself hyped up here

Some cool points on this one.

Someone once told me that there is no difference between looking good and feeling good. I’m not sure about this to be honest, but confidence can go a long way. Like you say, there is an element of aesthetics which can’t be avoided.

"Don't DHV. BeHV" - I agree with this. On a side note, if I am BeHV, I need to make some efforts to communicate that. But like you said, it can be natural, as part of who I am, and not just a canned story.

Re: The Dog Whisperer... I think that elements of learning (classical and operant conditioning) work the same with most animals - whether they do with humans or not is another thing. I know they work well with kids, especially naughty ones, but I’m just not sure about how they relate to sentient human beings. That said I’ll keep an open mind and give it a look – I’ll also check out some of Tyler’s stuff.

Swype - I have much to learn from you!!

arh crap, i need to work on looking at a girl, like i want to eat her for breakfast lunch and dinner. That'll take some work :-( cheers guys!

I then need to start working on closing