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Default 09-02-2018, 08:53 PM

hi, what if you are/were married with 3 kids? moving away is not an option
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Default 09-02-2018, 11:20 PM

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hi, what if you are/were married with 3 kids? moving away is not an option
I wasn't married but had a kid with a girl after a short relationship. It didn't work out with us and I moved away.

No, I didn't run from my kid. I only moved 50 miles away which doesn't sound like much geographically but it was enough for a new lease of life, a new start, a breath of fresh air, a blank canvas, the next chapter, and all that cheesy shit.

I still see my kid when I want, without having had to drag my ass through court or any of that bollocks. And I've long since come to realise that I don't want the stereotypical family life with all it's ups and downs and headaches anyway. I'm loving my freedom, and fucking around with young ladies. Which I intend to continue long into the future.

So yes, moving is an option, and you can still see your kids if you do. I didn't mean emigrate.


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Default 09-02-2018, 11:24 PM

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I'd Google "nations that don't support Spanish child support claims" (+pro tip: I already did that time ago, just in case), then buy a ticket, pack a bag and get the fuck out of here.
Fuck, I'd have thought it wouldn't matter at all what country you were in. That if you've disappeared to another country, that's you gone and you couldn't be chased down for child support because well, you're in another country under another country's laws. Similar to being a criminal who can't be extradited for crimes unless it's for killing the queen or something equally massive.


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Default 11-02-2018, 12:44 AM

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Nope.

If you preg a girl anywhere in Europe then you need to get out of Europe, the EU has rules for all that. Unless you are just gonna disappear and live under the tax radar.

Then the UK is head of the commonwealth, so you're still paying off you go any of them places. In Europe or any commonwealth country you'd have to go off the grid to not get earnings attachments.

It's not that much more complicated than how you can just go anywhere within these agreements and use their hospitals and so on. There's a little bit of extra beuraucracy but not much, not if you already gone to the trouble of getting the court order to have an earnings attachment etc.
Off topic from the OP but an I've got an additional thought... I wonder is there anywhere in the world you could fuck off to, be non-existent to anyone you ever knew, yet get a job and live a normal life.

I mean, these days eventually some cunt will find you. Not unless you move to the woods.


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Default 31-03-2018, 11:03 AM

As love is made by GOD and it`s a most beautiful feeling at all but how to get over someone you love? Well, it`s not easy to do this. It`s all depends on your luck either you find out true love or cheated by someone. It`s the most common thing nowadays. People play with feelings and emotions of others. Mostly girls are the victim of this thing.

Their boyfriends spoil out there respects, feelings and love. It`s too much difficult task when you fall in love with someone and another one just spoils yourself. In this type of situation, it`s difficult to move on.We should remember one thing. It `s true breakups hurt but by losing someone who doesn`t respect you is actually a big gain.

Make your thinking in your favor:
Think after a breakup that your boyfriend or lover was not suitable for you. I must say don`t make the break up immediately Firstly give some time to your partner try to judge either that person is suitable for you or not. If you have any doubts try to clear it. Perhaps your doubts are worthless. Think from both sides judge your partner from both aspects and then made any solid conclusion. Some time misunderstandings spoil your relation.

Nature of your partner can reflect their inner feelings:
If your partner really loves you then that person will try to give you more love. Whatever faults you have that person will try to compromise with you. But if nature of that person is lusty then that person shows more interest in others. So firstly start to ignore that person and check either that person really miss you wait for calls and text and after then made any type opinion.

Communication:
Before breakup communicate to your lover. Realize your partner that you are really in love. Try to sort out your problems first. After then straightforwardly ask what you want? After this leave that person.

How to forget someone you really love after a breakup?
It`s tough to forget someone who is your first love. But to forget that person start giving your precious time to yourself. Spend money on yourself. Go outside with your friends and cheer up with them. Try your best not think about your ex. Get yourself busy with many other things. Start to live the life of a bird without any restriction. Do whatever you want to do. Reconnect with your old friends talk with them. Try to fill up the distance which was created due to your love affair.

Throughout all the gifts:
Throughout all the gifts and those things which are related to that person. Clean up your bedroom. Change out its settings, drapes and other things which remind that person.

Music swimming, dancing, and exercise:
These three things can make you happy. It`s medically approved that these things can less your tensions, anxiety, and depression. Try to do these things regularly.

Give time to your siblings, parents, and friends:
After then give great importance to your parents. As you ignored them in past and perhaps became harsh with them due to someone. Communicate with them. Start to take a great care of them. Give time to your siblings and friends.

Change your cell number and other contacts account:
After then change your cell number your Facebook account and all those things which are connected to your ex. And never try to contact that person again in your life.

Share with your close friend:
if still, you are in tension feeling upset and finding this difficult to forget that person then share it with your close friend about whom you are sure that will not break up your trust and will give you a true piece of advice. Perhaps youíre that friend works like a therapist.

Don`t look back at any cost:
Don`t look back at your past and at all those things which remind your ex. Don`t go at those places on which you spend time with your ex. As it reminds you your ex. Think your ex-was an example in your life. It was a false example of your life and you deserve better than your ex. Because cheating is a mistake, not a mistake which your ex-made with you.

Stop thinking of your ex:
Stop thinking of your past. Because by doing this you can never get better tomorrow. It is same as reading one book again and again and you know the story too.

Living happily is the best revenge to your ex. So never get upset when your ex is with someone else.

Don`t become a friend of your ex when you give up:
Sometimes after breakup ex-ask to for friendship then never do this in your life. This will be same like kidnapper kidnaps you and when make you free ask you to stay in touch.

Merry to those who love you:
After getting this experience merry to that person who loves you not to that person to whom you love. Don`t compare your present with your past. Because in past your past was doing timepass with you and your current partner is your true love. Perhaps this person is not perfect as you need but the most important thing is that person is fair to you.
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U wot m8?
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Default 08-04-2018, 12:05 AM

I actually think my method of moving the fuck away coupled with the first on on Jaz's list of Cutting all contact is all a nigga needs to do.

If you can't move away for whatever reasons, real or imagined, then dip into the others but..

If you WON'T or choose NOT TO move away out of stubbornness, or standing your ground, or whatever, then don't come crying about it.

Most of the shit on Jaz's list is valid, but from the personal experience of Moving the fuck away, everything took care of itself, eventually. After some more pain and perseverance of course, but I dread to imagine what life would be like if I'd stayed living in my home town.

Cliches generally make me me cringe but, although I wouldn't have chosen that most painful experience a girl ever put me through, I did use that pain as a way make my life 10 times better than it ever was. Making that move was a make or break.

So, I can't stress this enough, Move the fuck away.


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Default 25-06-2018, 11:15 PM

Last night I was having a few chilled out drinks by myself. Tunes were playing on YouTube, and it was on autoplay.

Randomly, Passenger - Let her go came on and as I listened to the lyrics an overwhelming feeling of dread and regret came over me. I suddenly realised I may have made a big mistake in breaking up with the blonde 25 year-old back in February.

In fact I didn't only realise it last night, I knew I was making a mistake at the time, she knew I was making a mistake at the time, and yet I went and done it anyway. It's just that last night it really hit me and got me wondering what the fuck have I done.

It's too late now. She's with a new guy who she says really cares about her more than anyone else ever has. I'm just an idiot who didn't appreciate what he had when I had it.

It's kinda painful, I've been emotional and upset all day, but since I was the one who hurt her, she's probably better off without me anyway.

Just gunna have to take it on the chin and accept that I made a terrible decision.


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I can't stress this enough, Move the fuck away.
I think this only works in certain situations such as an ex (and their acquaintances) who continually crosses boundaries.
If moving isnít part of your life plan or goals, then moving to escape seeing them is the same as moving to be near them - just as needy and emotionally driven


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I suddenly realised I may have made a big mistake in breaking up with the blonde 25 year-old back in February.
there are plenty more mate. Nothing like a little heartache once in a while to keep you feeling human and on your toes


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Default 26-06-2018, 09:16 PM

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I think this only works in certain situations such as an ex (and their acquaintances) who continually crosses boundaries.
If moving isn’t part of your life plan or goals, then moving to escape seeing them is the same as moving to be near them - just as needy and emotionally driven

For me it was a necessity, because I was going out of my mind. The idea of continuing to live nearby the girl who I had a baby with whilst she was in another relationship was way too much for me to take, and that's not to mention the numerous associated injustices I was the recipient of which was making me think of doing very illegal shit.

So I made the right decision in moving away, and it's been pretty much uphill ever since.

Can't say the same for my recent decision though.


there are plenty more mate. Nothing like a little heartache once in a while to keep you feeling human and on your toes
Not ashamed to admit I broke down a few times last night. It was something I just about managed to hold back in the office all day, although I did tell my best mate from work how I felt because he noticed something was up.

She again pointed out yesterday I knew I was making a mistake and did it anyway. That she was grateful that I called it a day as it allowed her to meet the new guy who makes her very happy, and said she hopes I find the same, and that she feels it's not appropriate to ever text or message her again.

I'm honestly happy for her, but severely gutted that I literally handed her to him. She was already happy being my girl.

I told her I just wanted to acknowledge what a foolish decision I'd made and that I was sorry for hurting her. That I know it's too late, that she's a great girl and I'm glad she's happy, that I've no choice but to let her go and I won't bother her again.

So now it's time for me to MTFU, accept my stupid decision, and go pull more girls. Especially that threesome I'm so very determined to get lately.


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