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Default rejection - 28-12-2015, 12:20 PM

I was watching a you tube video about rejection. Basically it was a guy running around London doing day game and getting blown out. Its just, when he got burnt out the look on his face was so bad.

The fact is, this guy was a profession pick up artist with his own dating boot camp. I can understand going though that much emotion hurt for money, but doing it for fun is insane.

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What is the best way to handle rejection?

-For me I prefer to laugh at the girl. It may be a fake laugh, but I try to adopt an emotion state that this girl is crazy and suffers from an antisocial behavioural disorder. The main thing is to not believe it is my fault or has anything to do with my appearance.

Then I move on and open another set.
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Default 28-12-2015, 02:13 PM

What he said ^.

Laughing at someone because they don't want to get to know you is a pretty immature response. Just smile & move on - that's just life for you.
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Default 28-12-2015, 02:56 PM

This is the video I watched, this type of rejection. When she just doesn't want to talk.



I always use indirect openers. There is less pressure on her and me.

I've heard loads of people complaining when they meet someone who is; too quite or socially awkward.

Laughing at her, as if what she just said is funny. Is not that bad. acting like her response is just surprising and different. Is not rude, my emotional state is light hearted. I have never been aggressive towards her or any other girl.

The problem is, if I don't blame her I blame myself. I will start thinking it's my fault. Maybe I have been rejected because there is issues with my appearance. Which will in turn cause me to not approach any other girl, until I fix this fictional problem. Which never happens, because it doesn't exist.

I've met loads of wing men from a different forum, and the truth is, I honestly believe the reason they turn up for one night and then disappear forever. Is because they blame themselves for the fact she didn't want to talk.
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Default 28-12-2015, 03:12 PM

Instead of looking for people to "blame" about whether its her fault of your fault, think of it this way instead:

Maybe shes' a lesbian
Maybe she prefers fat men
Maybe she doesn't like fat men
Maybe she prefers tall men
Maybe she prefers short men
Maybe she's married
Maybe she has a boyfriend
Maybe she just had a break up and is happy being single
Maybe she just isn't looking right now
Maybe she had a fall out with a friend
Maybe she just wants to have a good time with her friends & not be pestered by giys

There are a very large amountof factors as to why she isn't interested, some of them are related to you but many of them may not be. As i said in the above post, why not just accept that this is life, smile and move on? Let it go.
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Default 28-12-2015, 03:18 PM

What I mean is laughing is my ideal response, I do smile and as well. Any reaction that doesn't look or feel like being blown out is affecting me.

I always tell myself it's not my fault and move on.
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Default 28-12-2015, 04:03 PM

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Just smile & move on - that's just life for you.
I will stick with this.

I do want to add that I never meant to hurt those girls that I laughed at, when I got rejected. Now you're making me feel really bad.
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Default 29-12-2015, 09:46 AM

You deal with it hurts not caring. If she was rude and you weren't the you can give her some ahit


Know Thyself.

Have fun.
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Default 29-12-2015, 10:50 AM

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If she was rude and you weren't the you can give her some ahit
I use to just laugh in the girls face if she was giving me shit, but every one on the forum have said that's rude and wrong. In the future, I plan to just
"smile and move on"
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Default 01-01-2016, 06:24 PM

If a girl is being rude you should walk off. That's probably the best and most effective course of action for your 'state' and time efficiency.

However it is the least fun.
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Default 02-01-2016, 02:39 AM

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I was watching a you tube video about rejection. Basically it was a guy running around London doing day game and getting blown out. Its just, when he got burnt out the look on his face was so bad.

The fact is, this guy was a profession pick up artist with his own dating boot camp. I can understand going though that much emotion hurt for money, but doing it for fun is insane.

THE QUESTION

What is the best way to handle rejection?

-For me I prefer to laugh at the girl. It may be a fake laugh, but I try to adopt an emotion state that this girl is crazy and suffers from an antisocial behavioural disorder. The main thing is to not believe it is my fault or has anything to do with my appearance.

Then I move on and open another set.
i don't think being rejection is a problem,think about it, why would u care, an is game was probably off because u never approach a girl without IOI, or an excuse, i normally ask for direction an see how she react then take it from there, sometime other people will jump in, it also seem harmless to everyone, i once get a girl to leave what she was doing an jump on the bus with me, take me to my door step an take me for coffee the next day, i couldnt get the owner for the place i was staying, see another girl ask for her help she call them them make arrangement to show me around the next day, dress good an fashionable, standout from the crowd, but make sure u have an response for the lady, keep eye contact with a smile while holding there hand, i only just read the mistory method, an the game, so many girl ask me out r make approach an i mess it up, i have never has any of the pua artist problem to beginning with, but the social dynamic by history, is the only thing i will use, alsothere is a few other method of showing interest
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