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We all live in bubbles. In our bubbles we have everything we pay attention to. Call in conscious call it reticular activation system, call it your reality tunnel.

In there is you as you experience it as the center. The things you do, the things people do you take notice of. The random things that simply happen you assign meaning to ala fate.

Problem is we mismatch these signals. We assign a certain thing that happens down to one thing in our reticular activation system / reality tunnel / bubble, when there are many many causes other than that in the realms of possibility.

For example many a new people could approach a woman and try to get a conversation started, but she may very well come off and say "do you mind"? Well in the person may think, she was such a bitch. Nah she's not worth it. When in fact she could have been discussing the funeral arrangements of her uncle Dave. Point is, you never know. You fit it in with your experiences from the past and keep going.

So were all here in our bubbles. Each has there own. No one bubble is the same as is no person is the same. We all want to find someone whose bubble is like ours. That’s why there are so many religions in the world. A nice bubble that times everything together in harmony no questions asked.

Now I'm in my bubble, you’re in your bubble. Trouble is which bubble is right? All bubbles are right. All bubbles are wrong until you question them. You can believe something is absolutely true until someone comes along who has a stronger bubble in that area than you, then where are you? You give up your bubble for a stronger one. Your weakness in belief gives way to the stronger belief.
It does not have to be true since all bubbles are true and false at the same time. It just has to be stronger. The more you believe something the more real it is in your life. The more real it is in everyone else’s. Consider the star or nebular or galaxy that draws in weaker ones.

So your here in your bubble. It’s now, it’s what you living in this instance. How do you get into a bubble you want? Well if you’re current bubble is soft, your reality and life is weak then your going to get sucked into other peoples bubbles. You’re going to fit yourself around the bubbles of others. That is in now way moving forward. That is only being distracted.

Your bubble is now. But to be something better, you need a better bubble. Seek out the experiences that someone in your ideal bubble would have. Not what fits in comfortably with your bubble but what you would expect too happen.
The greatest thing about bubbles, their flexible and their always there. Where ever they go. They will always be with you. Move in one direction and your bubble will always surround you. Move in any particular direction and your bubble will follow. Move to towards depression and you bubble will follow you with depression and sad thoughts. Move towards love and joy and your bubble will show you the joy and love in the world you missed.

Your bubble your reality is what you make it. So why not start making it a bubble worth living in.