perception
 

I was out last weekend and some bird was all after my cock.]

I wasn't really that interested cos she was a bit of a minger.

so I later she adds me on face book.

her name is familiar and unique. Then I realise it's a bird I pulled wen I first got into this but didn't ring for several reasons I'm not discussing.

what's weird is before I thought she was hot and my memory of her is the same but somehow hotter.

I've experienced this before when I lost weight b4 and my perspective changed.

has anyone else.

Happens all the time,
People will be like omg i got the number of this HB9.5...6 months later when they ahve shagged a few.. that HB9.5 would be reduced to a HB7

Once you pull things from your fantasy into your reality it becomes the norm

Spot on.

On another note - the idea of rating people (other than for your own mind) is fucking retarded.

The only logical for rating people that has ever been presented is in mystery's material - the idea that "10s" have more confidence and need to be "negged" more while you can't neg "6s" much at all because she'll think you're a dick.

This concept is so wrong, you can come across some incredibly physically attractive girls that are low self esteem and some average looking girls that are very high self esteem. The better and more practical system is in fact to simply rate their self esteem/confidence on a 1 2 3 scale of low mid or high.

Stating the rating of a girl is simply seeking the validation of fellow men for your successes. Validate yourself, you don't need to show off that you can pull good looking girls.

there are average looking girls as well who think that they are as fit as fuck and are arogant and rude with it. These are the most annoying... like who the fuck do you think you are?? They need negging the most and it would probablly work the best on them.

However, I rarely bother. If someone is rude and bitchy, I find this a massive turn off.

I actually do this.

A point I'd like to bring up on negs is that I often use negs through facial expressions/body language.

You should read this book:

The Doors of Perception - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It'll mess with your mind, man!

On second thoughts, you should actually do acid once in your life when you have a spare 48 hours or so.

I've done shrooms a couple of times back when they were legal ;) cool I'll check it out ;)