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Default How do i stop being the green eyed monster. - 11-12-2010, 12:05 PM

Out last night gaming my first approach i ran the line that im a motovational speaker and girl i can inhance your life can you handle real challenge like my self so i closed got the number and said im in a hurry so give me your number .

I felt that it was a excellent approach but i remembered that she said are you collecting numbers!

Which i was later i see her in another bar she is chatting to my mate now i get the green feeling and pull him away saying why are you stealing my set.

He replies that you got a weak number and she approached me so his attitude was i want her this sent me into meltdown not only did i feel out gamed but i said you should not betray me as frendship should be more valuable.

Well i felt incredibely jealous and fuck i was pissed that mt emotions get the better of me as ive always suffered from jealously as i find it hard to trust women and men .

I told him you blown mate your no freind i dont give people second chances he said i wont go with her if your that upset!

But today i realised im the twat for letting my self get angry and insecure with my self.

As when out with women i never introduce her to my freinds as i see them as a potentail threat of stealing her off me even guys giving her the eye in the street makes me feel like killing them for looking at her.

My plan is to aplogise for my dismal behavoiur and i ruined a great night as very socail and worked some very good group sets dominating the coversation and being very alpha.

My arrogance i think i was mystery at one point as my ego is huge but self esteem shit well i feel better writing this and getting it out of my system i just acted so infantile as well.

Any advise how to change my self and not get so insecure and jealous.?
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Default 11-12-2010, 03:35 PM

With me and BCB, we just respect each other to the point where if I say don't chat that girl up, we stick to it and don't jump over the line. Saying that we don't do it that often and usually is exclusively to close friends (I bring one of my close girl mates over, I'll say "Mate... don't fuck my mate!") and to stop "beam crossing"... i.e. sleeping with a girl that I've already slept with (this rule I'm sure would be open to discussion if he REALLY REALLY liked a girl I've been with). Oh and ram-raiding... that can be annoying too. Coming late in the set and clocking the girl I'm chatting up.

But that's usually where the line ends.

If I've wrecked the set or my set takes a fancy to him, then free game in my book... Really... what does it matter! He's happy, she's happy and I'm back on the hunt again. Plenty of girls out there! Woot!

Do you know what I do when I'm jealous... I stop being jealous and start being awesome. True story.
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Default 11-12-2010, 03:56 PM

What MonkeyBuster said...

I'll admit, I can be a bit of a ram-raider if the drink's gotten the better of me, but typically I find just having a mutual respect with your wing prevents big issues.

In all other cases, zip up your vagina and move on


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Default 11-12-2010, 04:06 PM

Yeah i done the approach and the chat he stands there just staring and smiling good body language and he gets the result lifes a bitch sometimes.
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