How to not get obsessed by hot girls around
 

Hey guys, I have a very specific problem. My mind is super focused on hot women when they're around.

I moved abroad last year. At home I used to have a group of friends, most of them naturals, who have on/off hot girlfriends. I know them since high school, so I was pretty used to being around hot and popular girls. (Because I didn't get them myself, I got into PUA). Then, by gaming I got to an intermediate level and scored occasional 8-9s. With this lifestyle, I was pretty used to to hot girls around and they were no big deal.

Now, I moved abroad for a job in academics. I also found a girlfriend who I am happy with. Everything's cool. BUT: because of the people I hang out with now (academics are not known for their looks, lol), I am never around any hot girls, except my own girlfriend. This is not a real problem,

BUT whenever by chance someones friend is coming along (or something, just an example) and they are hot, I almost can't stop eyeing them. Of course I don't, that would be creepy. But it's a real internal battle. If you're used to being around 3-4s all day (yes, sorry for the number system, just trying to make a point), when there is suddenly a 7 or up, your whole system is gonna be bent upon getting in there.

It sounds funny, and I guess it is when you're reading this, but it's actually quite stressful and I would like to go back to where hot girls are normal. Any ideas to how I could get back to my normal state? It has been 1-2 years of this and I would like to tackle it now.

I also stopped watching porn a few months ago, and i think it helps a bit (not to objectify women in general), but it only helped about 10-20%.

Any ideas?

P.S. I used to post on MPUA forum, what happened to that place??? This forum is also cool though. ;)

maybe you should not go to hot girl place

Yes, get out of your head and stop the need to feed your ego ;)

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I think what you are feeling is normal. Of course when you see a hot girl, you will get excited. It is a natural instinct. Just because you have a gf, it doesnt mean these natural urges go. I would learn to live with it. Admit to yourself, yes she is hot but what else is behind the surface? Like with the Kardashians, they are hot but they are not that attractive because you know the have nothing in their head haha so yes hot girls are mesmorizing but unless you plan on replacing your girl, I would just accept that hot girls exist and be open to yourself about it. Don´t resist it!