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Default 21-02-2015, 01:07 PM

Turning 30 for me led to an existential crisis that I'm still trying to reconcile.
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Default 21-02-2015, 06:55 PM

You wanna be a DoP right? Go DoP a tonne of shit even if it comes out your own pocket. And sort that fucking haircut out too.

Definitely hang out with young students like me though, that's really cool.


Know Thyself.

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Default 23-02-2015, 03:31 AM

So I'm officially an old man

Born awayyyy back in the 80s

Three tenths of a century old

One decade away from my mid-life crisis

What's the point of life when you're so old & past it?

.............

Only joking I feel no different, & I'm more excited about the future than anything.

Pass me the wine 🍷🍷🍷


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Default 24-02-2015, 02:44 AM

YOTO - You're only thirty once


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Default 10-03-2015, 10:39 AM

40 is new 30
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Default 10-03-2015, 11:02 AM

I wonder how old you are?

I've got a decade before I get there. There's so much I hope to achieve before then, the top one being loaded so I can become a real sugar daddy with lots of sugar baby's on the go.

That's if I haven't married a supermodel by then, obviously.


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Default 10-03-2015, 08:04 PM

Yeah. So it's basicaly the same.

And when I say basically, I mean exactly.
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Default 11-03-2015, 12:10 AM

Why don't you share some tips, wisdom, what you wished you did and didn't do, how you'd of lived it better etc etc. And real stuff not romanticising of the past. It's easy to say 'I wish I worked hard and went to Harvard'.

That'd be a great contribution to forum geezer.


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Default 11-03-2015, 11:35 PM

Because I'd sound like a total cock doing so. I'm not fucking 75. What did I learn in my 20s? fuck all mate. Generally drunk allot, dicked about, chased girls and made zero money. Yeah sage wisdom man. Come back to me in 20 years and I might have some of value to share. I predict at least the next 5 years are going to be ideantical to last the last 5.
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Default 12-03-2015, 03:36 AM

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I predict at least the next 5 years are going to be ideantical to last the last 5.
My life has changed loads in the last 5 years. Quit drugs. Became a dad. Moved to Belfast. Started a degree. Discovered opinion openers.... Amongst lots of other detail it's been a pretty awesome & sometimes painful 5 years.

I predict, in fact I expect the next 5 years to be even better, if 95% unforeseen. I'll get the driving license. I start a couple of voluntary roles soon that are something of an investment in my future which could take any number of paths. I'll get back in full time work by about summertime. I'll complete my degree & graduate in 2 years meaning I'll step up the ladder in the salary scale. Definitely going to take up Krav Maga by summer at the latest & then in about 3 - 4 years become a black belt in it.

I've just remembered actually, in a party in 2008 my soon to be brother in law was sat beside me. We were all on E's & I had just taken 4 & half pills an hour earlier on top of the 10 or 15 I'd taken over the weekend. He asked me..

"where do you see yourself in 5 years"

I saw nothing. Absolutely nothing. As far as I can remember my mind was literally blank & I just felt like dirt with no prospects of any kind. I'd lost my job a year before & was in a shit place mentally & had lost myself. I wasn't the guy I used to be who everyone liked & remembered. I'd love to say that was a major turning point but I had no way to immediately get myself out of the deep hole I was in still living at my dads, on drugs, no money no girls nobody likes me etc. but it WAS a major realisation at just how shit my life had become. I never contemplated suicide but I certainly felt so purposeless & had become so withdrawn from real life & social life that many times I'd be sat in my room playing Xbox thinking "what the fuck am I going to do or where do I even begin?"



That shits history though & the point is that your life can change a lot in 5 years & in ways you thought you never could. When my brother in law asked me where I'd be in 5 years & I drew a blank, I had no idea I'd have packed up & moved to Belfast by the time those 5 years were up, along with all the stuff that happened in the middle.


Jaz, do you want the next 5 to be identical to the last 5? Unless they've been really amazing & you don't mind just continuing what you're doing, I'd do different shit & make new shit happen.


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