my double standards for sex with many girls or just accept it?
 

I want girl to be faithful, committed to me.


I dont want to kiss girls and know that they probably sucked 10 other guys' dicks in her life before me and relationship with me.

But on the other hand, why should I even expect this if I can pick her up & seduce in a short period(week)?

If sex is not a big deal for her and she can easily jump into bed with me on day3,4 , hell even in a week - then why do I expect her to give me blowjob and NOT DO SAME to any other guy(s) before me in her life?

I want to be first and 'exclusive', but I understand that in my part this is kinda hypocrisy, since I seduce and fuck many girls and she can not?

Why? we live in a free, post-sexual revolution society, feminism is a well established concept

women are free to:
get pregnant when want
drive cars
pursue career
be childfree

the key point: If I seduce many girls - my expectation to be the only enjoying blowjobs must be irrational?


I think I already know the answer from my intuition: avoid hypocricy, treat others the way you wanna be treated, but what do you want to think?

I have this conflict in my head, help me resolve it

This kind of thing irritates the fuck out of me.

Most girls have had sex with multiple people. They've probably sucked multiple dicks. Your mother probably has. So what? A little listerine will sort that out.

Girls like sex at least as much as guys. That's a good thing. If they didn't like having sex with different people they wouldn't have sex with you. What you think you're too special for that to apply to you? You think all girls should just hang out in a convent suppressing their sexual urges until you, the greatest guy in the world shows up? No?

You want to just have sex with virgins? Some girl who's immature and a massive emotional headache and just lays there like a starfish? No?

Then just get the fuck over it. It's your problem no one else's, and it's a mentality that shames girls for having sex while you try to have sex with them and makes free, happy, uninhibited sex harder for everyone. Just deal with it.

Thank you Jaz, you needed to start taking positive action!!!

I agree with him, i only like virgins. Virgins who are sick in bed.

Virgin patients. Interesting fantasy.

When ever I feel sad and down in my self, I read this post. Thanks Hivauz. I know I shouldn't seek happiness from external sources but I just can't help my self with this post. My delicious bacon needs flipping.

Goodbye, until next time.