Porn/masturbation - oh yes!
 

Right chaps, porn/masturbation - talk to me.

How much is healthy, how much is excessive, can you do it too much, can you cause yourself damage..?

Clearly related to Brain & Body, so this thread begins..

As sexual beings we get much satisfaction from exercising our sex drive, indeed it helps us grow as we understand more about ourselves. But is there a point when it becomes unhealthy..

I want to know your thoughts, and any knowledge that backs it up would be super..

A quick search on good old wiki not so fruitful, almost half articles written on the subject (but linked for your reference)

Pornography addiction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Sexual addiction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Many moons ago I was in Waterstones and I came upon a book called the porn trap in the self improvement section.

A quick flick through the pages, the book had some very useful insights into the long term effects on the psyche of continued porn viewing (creating anxiety, insecurities, tension etc) and the nature of the addiction escalating, starting for most at soft then escalating to hard then fetish over time.

Really wanted to buy this book, but looked over at the counter and there was a young girl on the till, next time I said - which never came..

Have since found it on the net and may purchase it, as to be honest - I WATCH FAR TOO MUCH PORN AND MASTURBATE MORE THAN I'D LIKE TO.

Waterstones.com: The Porn Trap (eBook): The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography by Wendy Maltz, et al. (2008)

Anyway, over to you guys. How's the old porn and lube going for you these days? :bootyshake:

Back in the day when I could afford to see whores, I masterbated too. Everything turned out fine until I saw a post in the London forums about how masterbation can really ruin your sex drive so don't do it! I thought I would try to refrain.

After refraining, when back with my regular whore, my hardons weren't as hard, and I only came once rather than twice in the same time :( Refraining from wanking nearly ruined me! So from then on I vowed, if I'm not having sex (through no choice of my own), I will endeavour to cum at least twice a week. This is good for your prostate (good evidence it prevents cancer), it's good exercise, and keeps you sexually active. However, it's pointless having a wank just before you go out sarging!

Yeah i've also heard wanking is good for your prostate reducing your risks of prostate cancer by up to 30%. I'm 2/3 times a week at the moment, wouldn't mind cutting down on that but considering when I was a hormone enraged 15/16 year old it was 2/3 times a day! so that's progress!

Definately don't wank before hitting the town, it reduces your sex drive apparently, I wouldn't advise wanking at least 2 days before you go out sarging. You want to increase those sex drives to such an intensity that when you're 'gagging for it' you're going to work even harder on that night out to obtain it.

Interesting. I also wonder if it has the potential to make you come across as needy or desperate though. However, I think I'm with you on this mate. I recall one wkd last summer at a street festival, when I hadn't wanked for a whole week, and it made me feel a lot more sexually charged with a hot girl I was hanging out with. It was pretty intense!

I was talking to my friend about this and he was saying how he had blown his 'wank fuse' and he had to watch more and more full on filthy porn. He then got into vintage porn and couldn't cum unless he was watching some untrimmed bushes.

I've got another friend who's into some well dodgy stuff (crapping and that kind of thing), his brother found some and e-mailed it to his mum!

Its also about porn K, but personally I feel more comfortable discussing this here than with my doctor who I'm too busy to see anyway.

I also wanna cut down, so a bit of support would go a long way - SHOW YOUR SUPPORT NOW KOWALSKI!!!!!!

Xxx

in the words of Jay Cartwright, Inbetweeners

i need to release the valve a couple of times a day.

My FB has been away for like 3 weeks now....

also, if im gna go out, i dont do it!

also i try and avoid doing it after a heavy lagering session, that can play hell up with the valve engineering.....


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I've heard, which means that this is by no means necessarily true, that wanking regularly causes fatigue. I try and keep it to 2 - 3 times a week, but that's bloody difficult when your'e not getting any poochie!

so its not ok to hang from a door handle by my neck with a whip tied to the end of a drill so it smacks your ass 10 times a second whilst jerking off?

Dude, chill out. I did start off this thread hoping to get some evidence, experiential or other wise, and I quote,

As someone with a very high sex drive, it interests me and I dont wanna turn out like the guy Tom mentioned

Scary stuff..

I cant Kowalski, the only time I dont watch porn is when im near you. :trampoline:

But Im taking the hustler 30 day challenge and am hopeful..

I beg to differ, both Tom and Sapmi have provided "experiential" evidence regarding this subject which is perfectly valid and useful.

Gosh I'd love too, but Im far too busy in the "real world" having hobbies, achieving things and generally being successful to make time..

Thats not what Im implying at all, education is acquired and therefore available to everyone.

Achievements are subjective and it only matters if you're happy with yourself.

Im just sensing more negativity today so Im trying to piss you off to see whats up..

Xxx

Good for you bro.

Keep pushing on.

x

I hear you Adam, I think my record in my prime was 12 in one sitting...

Serial wanker, meet the professional wanker, I just get straight down to business... LMFAS!!

Are you taking the Hustler 30 day challenge?

Yeah, for me the two go hand in hand so to speak.. ;-)

Day 1 over, I feel good.

Fucking hell Dolphin 12 in one sitting! Mines about 4 and I thought that was too much. Adam you crack me up mate, love your no-holds-barred honesty. I know this guy who's a right prick who once told me whilst working in a Sainsburys bakery he had a wank in the kiln and spunked all over the dough before baking!!

I havent been on the forum since Monday and its just funny how things happen.

So last night i got home about 10 pm last night and proceeded to go on the computer for nearly 2 hours doing exactly this.. then though DAMN this shit aint good and proceeded to delete my substantial porn collection from my computer as i've wasted 2 hours i could have been doing something constructive, plus it probably does take the drive away when your out on a weekend (may be.. we'll see).

So i log on here now to find your all talking about this same shit... strange!

Peace

everything in moderation including moderation folks.

That said, a friend of mine stops himself before he sees his regular girl. He seems to enjoy it (a man of extremes). Experiment with it I guess, but at least check out some real science on the topic if you're gonna make life changing changes (google pub med, or scholar).

This sounds interesting!

Assuming this sense of clarity is not that PU and 'sarging' is largely horseshit! ;) (as you well know)

Spread the word!

a friend of mine has sex addiction which means he has to get laid at least 2 times a week from anything with a pulse (or not)

he masturbates at least 3 times a day and states that this constantly lowers his energy levels and when he doesn't which is very far and few between he feels stronger and more of a man maybe because ha has more testosterone in his body

im not a doctor and my friend has a mental illness so i dont pretend to know too much about this stuff but coming from my sex addicted friend too much can be bad esspecielly if it lowers your energy like he says, but then again this could just be because he's fucked up, I mean come the guy will fuck a pillow if meant he could blow his load :D

I've not read everyone elsa's post but the first so i may be repeating what someone may of said as for porn i think watching it does mess the bloke watching it in his sex life, Watching it would implant the idea that women love sex like in that film (some may) so therefore we us as men replaying what we have seen in our own sex life leaving us a shit at shagging ... am saying this as i've compared vid's on how to pleasure women to just you're normal porn vid's.

Self pleasure i think is a good idea as i've read but not looked into it too much is a good idea. Why?? Because i hear spearm gets old fast to need to get rid of the old stock to get new stock in ....

... also i ones many, many years ago was talking to a old girlfriend that every bloke has a gizz she told me of this bloke who never Gizzed and i asked if he where a nob ... she told me he was, so my thoughts are that gizzing helps you relax so if you're not relaxed then you become a nob ...

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Dahm..i got fired from mi last job bcz o it... :hihi: So don't do that in camera surveillant job setting Mates...just do it in komfort of your home 2/3/4 times a week n u'll be juust fine....and don't watch shitcity.com porn or anything like that...that'll screw u up...
End of advice sequence.


P.s. To quit watchin porn imagine Elvis Presly singing instead of girl moanin'. :p

Peace

LL:

Get a fleshlight.

Im usualy on like once a day, but im cutting down lately. Set myself the challenge of getting till friday without one, only reason is I am curious to see if it improves my game at all.

been cutting down lately to a few times a month, btw what was the longest period you guys managed without it? apparently it's proven that the critical period is 3 weeks which most men can't go over it, managed once about a month but it was going crazy with the boners in public areas :)

I honestly dont know what I would do if I didnt release the valve, I must do it 4/5 times a week, sometimes 3 times a day (But only when im feeling down) it gives me a good pick me up, I did do an experiment tough where I stopped for a week. Its true I did have alot more energy, and when I did have sex it was far better. But since I get bored of my girls very quickly, iv not really found a girl I want to fuck more than a couple of times before moving on. I end up doing it more between times

How do u know its valid...

i think this post is weird as fuck...

its one thing guys talkin about how to pick up girls, its another all talkin about wanking n tha.

And for the record... i probly do at least 2 a day... if thats weird, write ur local MP