i'm interested in this now..

I didn't know NLP could be used to better yourself, i thought it was just a routine of persuasion for whatever reason, are there any audio mp3 tapes i can download to listen to.. i'd prefer that to reading, if not reccommending books is still great

get on utorrent and download NLP and stuff mate

any useful keywords to search out?

Demonic Confidence and Super Confidence by Archer Sloan (download torrent) - TPB

look good?

NLP - Bandler, Grinder, Erickson, John La Tourette & more (download torrent) - TPB is the one, just start with the bandler stuff

I went to a NLP/CBT/Hypnosis guy last year when i first split with the misses.
It only took 4 sessions with him and I had never felt so much confidence. It gives you a real buzz. I would recommend it to everyone.
I also have a mate who went to the same guy and before i did and he can't stop raving about it.
The only downside is that it's quite expensive for the sessions.

Unfortunately I then got back with the misses and 5 months later, she had managed to destroy all confidence and have made me waste my money! Doh!
I am thinking of going back though for a booster session.

Do whatever it takes to boost your confident again! Being confident is invaluable. Although personally, I think being confident is a matter of decision for me. I need to keep telling myself to be confident.

I am close to this hot girl and she has been going out with this guy for 3 years now. He's rough, average looking bloke and nothing special. When I asked why shes with him, she said he was the only guy confident enough to approach her in a house party three years ago....!

Hypnotherapy is awesome.. completely obliterated my AA.. would recommend it to anyone.

I try this every day when I can.
Doing the sessions with the guy helped me better as sometimes i need to really push myself and am sometimes guilty of being lazy and getting caught up with life (a crap excuse). Being on a set course gave me more of a push to do this along with the extra techniques that he also gave me to do.
Included with that was some hypnosis to talk to my subconscious to enforce everything that we were trying to instil into to me so that it was a double attack.
The first on my conscious with the daily technique practise.
The second on my subconscious with the hypnosis.

If practised daily for ages, the techniques are designed so that if for any reason you feel a bit down or lacking confidence then you can just quickly do the technique (for example, if you linked feeling more confident with squeezing your left hand thumb and forefinger together) and instantly be in that frame again as well as stop signs, to stop those negative thoughts everyone has from getting into your head.
And if you start to feel like you are really lacking then he gave me a way of doing self-hypnosis.
These all go hand in hand with telling yourself "YOU ARE THE MAN!"

I just wished i hadn't ruined all that hard work by allowing some girl to take me down!
The booster session is now booked!!

You can still have some left after obliterating something. (For example "Flake's cock obliterated her vagoo")