Mistress is blackmailing me!???

[Will..Arnett]

I know I made my bed so lie in it, so no reason stating the obvious. I had a mistress for 2 years and she called and told my wife when I finally told her I would never leave my wife for her. My wife and I stayed together and trying to work it out. Now the mistress is threatening to give some info that she held back like my mistress and I having sex in our marital bed and our sexual activities which I feel is embarrasing. I think the wife may try to forgive, only because she kind of has low self esteem, but not entirely sure what she will do. My question is what do I do with my X mistress go back to her to keep her quiet?

I have been with her 2 years she knows where I live and work and contacting my wife twice to disclose information is not a crime.

She is blackmailing for us to get back together not for money. The additional info she has is damning and embarrassing. It includes a video I made of myself.

Wow. A lot of this makes me feel sorry for the X mistress. She is hurting too. I realize I did string her along with pretenses of me leaving my wife. I really thought I would, but changed my mind.

[db x]

Originally Posted by Will..Arnett

I know I made my bed so lie in it.

& why not come clean with your Mrs rather than have her say it? if she wants to forgive you its up to her and it doesn't sound like you have a choice anyway.

We all make mistakes, but if you cover them up you wont learn. Saying you think your wife has low self esteem is bad, you ought to start looking on how to fix that rather than hanging out on pickup sites as a married man.

Db