Hello all
 

Hi all,

I'm maestro, and I'm 25.

I guess I'll start with why I've joined this forum and how I discovered this whole thing of sarging.

I have been/and still am hopeless with women. I might as well say it - I've never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl (properly) before (tragic, I know, but I'm not too despondent about it). The reasons behind my predicament, in a nutshell, are - extreme shyness up until I was 20; being part of a very small social circle which doesn't mix with any other social circles or people; and more imprtantly not knowing what the hell to do when seeing a woman that I'm really attracted to.

When I got to about 20, I acknolweged that my predicament with women was serious. However, I used to think I knew what I had to do to fix it. However, looking back I was wrong.

Last year I read an incredible book called 'The Game' by Neil Strauss (I'm sure most of you have heard of it). I was amazed by it, and it completely blew me away. It was extremely inspiring for me for obvious reasons.

I read that book at the end of last year, and despite being adequately armed with the thoery behind successful sarging, I havn't employed the approach very often - I've opened a few sets on nights out and thats about it.

I easily convinced my best mate that sargning is the way forward to interact with women and to achieve 'success' with them. However, he doesn't quite share the same enthusiasm as me to go out and do it, so he isn't the wingman/partner in crime I was hoping for.

So I've joined this forum to get advice on sarging and problems that I will encounter when trying it out myself more often. Also, to potentially meet up with other PUA's from this forum to witness first hand how it is done in real life.

Despite what I've said, and how my post may read, in terms of confidence, self belief and knowing what to do, I'm in the best position I've ever been. I know the theory well, and I geniunely have relatively little fear approaching women. However, I am where I am. I need to approach far more often, and I'd like to do it with PUA's and other people from this forum when possible.

I hope I haven't bored you too much with this long post.

Thanks for reading.

I hope this is the start of a new way for you.

Welcome.

I'm based in Wales.