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RLAJay 03-03-2011 09:49 AM

Lurker
 
Alright guys, long time lurker here.

I'm Jay, I'm 24 and I'm here to spam spam spam... No, really I'm not, I assure you.

I own Real Life Attraction, a service I've been running for nearly 2 years under no solid name and mainly through word of mouth. Until recently it wasn't necessary to offer anything to the online audience but crunch time has seen my word of mouth collapse. I teach via a 10 week course that seeks to teach things ethically. Full disclosure: Those of you who are very well read will get very little out of my course, don't buy from me. The best way to describe my course in a nutshell? Theory and tasks.. I require clients to apply the knowledge that they're taught through tasks that they're given. The closest relative pua thing is probably Rules Of The Game by Strauss except I teach much heavier theory as well as maintaining ethical principles throughout.

I start with esteem and confidence type things, move into routine based material and then finally move into much more natural thinking and application. I'm aware that the general consensus of the long standing members here on this forum is against routine based material but I find it's a necessary part of the process. Routine based material gives clients the confidence to apply them, when they know what they're supposed to be saying they don't get too hung up on approach anxiety, this allows them to get past it easier before moving on to becoming a natural. Don't get me wrong, I'm absolutely against the idea of someone wearing a mask to pretend to be someone they're not, which is essentially what routine based material is but I've found people get much better results far quicker this way. The end goal is of course natural behaviour though

I worked for a major UK pua company for almost 5 years before getting some morals, I left and started teaching through word of mouth, now I'm expanding rather than dying.

I've followed puaforum almost since it's inception, back when Jaz wanted to move away from the pua label. The moral beliefs here in this community have always been a positive to me and this forum is the only forum I still follow.

As I said before, I'm not here to spam up the forum, in fact my posting here will probably be kept minimum versus the more regular members as I'm so busy.

Feel free to ask me anything aside from which company I was part of as I'm still under an NDA with them... I wouldn't want to say bad things anyway.

EDIT: Almost forgot, if any of you are redditors, I also moderate the 8000 strong community /r/relationships

Double edit: Also just made a small donation to the site. I've certainly viewed it enough to warrant it.

Knave 03-03-2011 10:35 AM

How much you make from the website?

You do realise to make it in this biz, you have to have huge tits or dress all in black and act like a creepy c**t or wear hats, paint your nails and call yourself a one word name.

BCB 03-03-2011 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Knave (Post 37883)
You do realise to make it in this biz, you have to have huge tits or dress all in black and act like a creepy c**t or wear hats, paint your nails and call yourself a one word name.

I wear hats, paint my nails and call myself a one word name... no-one uses their surname in an introduction surely? Does that mean I could make it in this game? Maybe I should!

Challenge accepted!

RLAJay 03-03-2011 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Knave (Post 37883)
How much you make from the website?

You do realise to make it in this biz, you have to have huge tits or dress all in black and act like a creepy c**t or wear hats, paint your nails and call yourself a one word name.

Hah, I do realise that's the image a lot of the better known personalities have, I think there's plenty of space for someone with ethics, intelligence and a level head though. (cue: laugh track)

I make nothing directly from the site, I refuse to coat it in 15 layers of ads to click through for content. My only income comes from course sales, moving my course online has only occurred recently and making the move to start promotion occurred last week. I make enough to live which is about average really, you'll notice I'm also not extortionately priced. :) (And never will be)

BCB 03-03-2011 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by RLAJay (Post 37889)
you'll notice I'm also not extortionately priced. :) (And never will be)

Or the alternative. Come to this forum for a wealth of varied advice from many knowledgable people. Because afterall, no-one's got all of the answers*. And it's free



*except maybe Phil

Guest 03-03-2011 11:16 AM

Nice website, seems cool.

Its great you don't charge extortionate amounts like some..

RLAJay 03-03-2011 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by BCB (Post 37891)
Or the alternative. Come to this forum for a wealth of varied advice from many knowledgable people. Because afterall, no-one's got all of the answers*. And it's free



*except maybe Phil

And I have no problem with that either, there are benefits to be had from personal support and structured learning though. It all comes down to how people would prefer to learn, with the help and support of one person that teaches day in and out or with the communal and free support of a forum.

Different people progress at different speeds with different learning styles, many find it much easier to commit to actually changing their lives when they've got direct help and support as well as feeling more committed to change after putting money into it.

A good example would be music lessons.. You can teach yourself to play guitar and you'll be able to competently play however learning through structure will give you a completely different kind of ability.

There's nothing wrong with taking either route.

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