Hey all,

I [24M] am new to dating and looking to get some tips from this community (honetly, everyone seems so helpful so far). I would mainly need advice with three things. I am not sure what my goal is -- one night stands, short and long term dating would also work, but I feel I need to practice the craft of picking girls up and being a confident man. So far, I've been pretty unsuccessful with females so I'm desperate to break out of my old patterns and emerge from my ashes!

INITIATING PHYSICAL CONTACT

Even when I managed to go on a date with a lady of my liking, I struggled to make the final move -- everything I did just felt utterly awkward. How do you guys take the 'last bullet in'? How do you finish and score? I'm looking for tips and tricks: where to touch, where to look, how, what is too much, what is not.



2) DRESSIN' UP

I've never had a taste or sense for good fashion and I'm struggling with this on the daily basis. I know the looks are only 30% of the deal, but still, I want to be presentable. I struggle to find a consistent outfit, so I'd be happy if you could recommend some specific outfits that worked for you or you think would work for me (I'm tall, bald, average build)



3) WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER MASCULINE?

This has been a question that came up many times. In my view, to be successful with women you need to be somewhat masculine. I struggled to define it for myself (maybe it is impossible to come up with a definition), but I'd be interested to hear what is your definition of this vague concept, both physically and internally!

Thank you guys in advance wishing you a successful day!

cheers,

adam