Introduction

[Al1234]

Hello everyone!

My name is Al, and I have just joined this site, I am completely new here.

I am 28 years old, and I am not satisfied with the way my love life is going and I want to do something about it. That is why I registered on this site. I want to learn, apply this knowledge in real life, and get better at getting women.

[Jeepster]

Welcome, plenty of info on the site to get you started

[Al1234]

OK.
So, my first question is, how often should I approach women? Is once or twice a day enough?

What is a good way to start a conversation with a girl? What is the first thing I should say?
What do I say and how do I say it to a girl to make her want me? Is it OK if I try to use humor? Is it OK if I use compliments?

My problem is, I run out of things to say. How do I fix that?

How long should a conversation between a girl and me last to get her interested? When do I ask for a phone number?

Are there any exercises that I can do at home, maybe in front of a mirror to help me?

What are good places to approach girls? Is the tube OK?

Did any of you guys ever experience hostility? I was in a bar one night, I approached one girl and got rejected, which I dont mind, I think it happens to everybody, but then the bartender came up to me and said "Don't hit on girls, you can't do that."

[Dr_Zed]

Hi Al,

Which part of the UK are you based in?

As for exercises - have you been taking any action out in-field (daygame for example)? I started out by looking at some of Tom Torero's beginner advice, as well as finding a wing. A good wingman (or mentor or coach) is tantamount to getting anywhere in a social setting.

Ed

[Al1234]

I am in London.

I approached a couple of girls on the tube on my way back home from work.

I watched a couple of videos from A.G.Hayden. What he says seems logical to me and resonates with my experiences with women.

How much do wingmen charge? I googled about coaches, found somewhere they charge about 600-700 £ for bootcamps, and I work a minimum wage job. I wouldn't mind paying if it was 100 or 150, but I cannot afford 700 £.

[Dr_Zed]

Ah yes, A G Hayden, the guy who thinks that British guys generally have poor game. I found him more informative for highlighting incompetent dating coaches (like Sasha Daygame) than for actually teaching useful game concepts; I found his advice vague.

A wingman should charge nothing as you're in it for the same thing. Coaches will charge however, and it varies masses. Higher tier boot camps for about 3-4 days typically cost around $3000 these days.

Z

[Al1234]

OK, excellent.

I think I am gonna get a wingman after this lockdown ends.

How do wingmen work?

How successful were PUA techniques for yourself?

Would this stuff help me if I wanted a long term relationship?

[Dr_Zed]

TBH, I went out in London on Saturday and daygame was still viable.

Recent thread on wingmen here - https://www.puaforums.co.uk/seductio...tml#post128973

Techniques are undeniably important, but they can be done well, and badly. Coaching is best taken to fine-tune technique and vibe.

[Jeepster]

Originally Posted by Al1234

OK.
So, my first question is, how often should I approach women? Is once or twice a day enough?

What is a good way to start a conversation with a girl? What is the first thing I should say?
What do I say and how do I say it to a girl to make her want me? Is it OK if I try to use humor? Is it OK if I use compliments?

My problem is, I run out of things to say. How do I fix that?

How long should a conversation between a girl and me last to get her interested? When do I ask for a phone number?

Are there any exercises that I can do at home, maybe in front of a mirror to help me?

What are good places to approach girls? Is the tube OK?

Did any of you guys ever experience hostility? I was in a bar one night, I approached one girl and got rejected, which I dont mind, I think it happens to everybody, but then the bartender came up to me and said "Don't hit on girls, you can't do that."

So, my first question is, how often should I approach women? Is once or twice a day enough?......No limit, the more you do the more confident and better you get.

What is a good way to start a conversation with a girl? What is the first thing I should say?......If your not confident in direct approach go for the sitution approach, comment on the situation, that is your opener and conversation starter.

What do I say and how do I say it to a girl to make her want me? Is it OK if I try to use humor? Is it OK if I use compliments?......Its not so much what you say, there are no magic words, its how you say it, you have to engage her emotions for her to feel attraction, your body language says more than words.
Humor is ok if not done to the point of looking a clown.
Compliments again not done to the point of looking needy and arse licking, non of that...you got lovely eyes, you got lovely lips etc bollocks, they've heard it a thousand times, be more subtle be sincire with your compliment not complimenting on expecting something in return.

My problem is, I run out of things to say. How do I fix that?......Ask open ended questions and listen to what she is saying, you will hear cue's in her answers to move the conversation in another direction.

How long should a conversation between a girl and me last to get her interested? When do I ask for a phone number?......How long is a piece of string? The better you get at game the easier and quicker it is to get a woman interested. Once you get to know the signs a woman is interested you can ask for her number.

Hope this helps to give you something to work on.