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Hola Amigos -
28-10-2020, 01:14 PM
44 year old man
I live in Tooting Bec, London and am looking for a wing man over 35 to go on the prowl with. I've had professional guidance in the past and have approached alone, but have a silly self defeating notion that i'll meet someone from work out and feel humiliated if they were to ask me what I was doing approaching alone. I know it's self defeating and not efficacious etc, but it's a sticking point. Entirely aside of that i'm back in London for the first time (properly) in a decade (i've worked all over as a locum), and it would be nice to make some new upbeat friends. The ones I grew up with in London are good guys but the banter covering insecurities types, so not for me in large doses. Sounds horrendously faultfinding, which I hope i'm not, just not people to encourage each other to approach beautiful women with in any event. Please PM me, not really a group person but sociable and encouraging. Cheers CS     
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29-10-2020, 12:50 PM
Welcome Clive,
May I ask what concerns you have over your colleagues finding out about pick-up? If that happened to me I'd be honest (my boss knew in my case and didn't really care). Z
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29-10-2020, 11:14 PM
I assume you have been a Locum Doctor and your concerns of approahing female colleagues is a fear of ridicule and a reputation you may get? Hospital staff are brutal, I speak from experience from Nurses i've dated.
Are you approaching direct or indirect? In your situation I would use indirect, your not signalling immediate interest so wouldnt be putting yourself into an embarrasing situation if you picked on a colleague using direct approach, also by using indirect your buying time to find out about the girl, and if she turns out to be a colleague you can always say "I thought i recognised you, anyway was nice chatting I must be off" You saved face.
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