New from NZ
 

Hi am jamesfreeman, am 44 this month, located in Wellington New Zealand and am a delivery driver at a loc supermarket (kept me occupied during our covid-19 lockdown to) and am generally inexperienced with PUA.

Was in a relationship but been single for a while and back into it. Fortunately prostitution is legal here for when desperate but am on the game now hence on this forum.

I did read Neil Strause's book back in the 2000s and lurked on a couple of forums.

What I hope to get here are some insights and be able to share any insights/results myself. I am more inner game rather than outer game but some basic outer game cant hurt.

Am also trying to figure out apps like tinder and hooking up that way, only recently started and have one good prospect so far but is a work in progress. Will be interested to hear peoples ideas and tips for online/apps game.

Am quite busy at moment with work etc and we in a mini near lockdown (so called level 2) here in NZ so leaving the sarging at clubs till I ready, but that wont be far away.

My general confidence with woman got a major boost with my previous relationship (helped demystify women) and am good looking so I expect I will do better now than in the 2000s but am looking for good tips that resonate with me.

Anyway will start lurking on the forum...

Welcome, and welcome back to getting in the game. I too am recently back in the game. Not the most exciting forum tbh hardly anyone posts for some reason, I've been trying g to find out why but no one has replyed. Anyway good luck in your resurrected game.

Cheers. Yeah it is good when forums (of any type) are actually active. Looks like enough stuff here for a good read and stuff to think about. Keep posting!

Yep that was my plan, to post enough to get more people to interact and hopefully get the forum back up and running, but doesn't help if the spam isn't bding checked.

Welcome. This is going to come across as a daft and obvious point, but I'll call it out - you're in New Zealand, but you're posting on a UK forum.

1) Is there not something similar for you which is more geographically relevant?
2) Are you coming over here looking for wings anytime soon ;)

I Googled PUA forums and most of them are quite dead ie no one posting (in some cases top threads not answered in several years) this forum is the first forum scrolling down that has people actually posting in 2020. So that is the reason. Also population wise UK is big and culturally similar, I hope to find some american lairs too...

I agree, although this isnt the fastest paced Forum, there are a few of us posting, you do wait a while for a reply, if you get one at all. I'm hoping the more we post the more popular the forum will become again.

Makes sense. I lurk a couple of non pua forums and like regular posting so can lurk or drop comments