Bring up her bf and destroy or keep gaming her?
 

Hi,

I like a coworker and all signs seem she likes me too... we flirt non stop and often go to lunches together where i started getting more touchy and more bold than at the actual workplace. So far so good, she lauighing non stop, shes also getting more comfortable and touchy and first time ever actually quite witty firing back at me when i make fun of her using push/pull. Also my eye contact has been super strong for over a week now and it has made us a lot more closer and instead of having trouble keeping eye contact, im not in a weird state of actually immensely enjoying it.


About 5 weeks ago, she accidentally mentioned she was seeing someone...I could she felt awkward sayingand she looked like she regreted it immediately it but I pretended like it did not matter.

FYI - shes generally into tough, manly aplha types more like myself, this guy shes seeing is the exact opposite of than, small, wimpy, scared looking. (i searched him up on social media)

She has never mentioned this guy again but did in passing state shes going to see a friend... the city she mentioned is the same as the guy so shes pretty much going to see him for a day in the week but shes not even calling him bf... is this progress for me?


Should I continue gaming her and making moves or should i mention the bf and apply the boyfriend destroyer?

This girl is just doing what allot of girls do, basking in the attention of men. She's just using you for validation.

Unless you want to get sacked, don't piss on your own doorstep.