43 year old starting out
 

Hi all,I've been aware of pick up for 14 years but have always been in relationships. 12 years ago I separated from a girl and decided to work on myself. I had an office fling with a 19 year old girl and fell in love, 4 months later she was pregnant. Long story short we have 3 kids but she has never fulfilled my needs and now wants to separate.
So I'm back to the beginning -I'm not a victim about it all just looking forward to being my best self.
I tend to overthink and underdo - looking for wingman in Herts or essex