Time to break my fear of approaching.

[Darkhorse27]

Hello from South Wales!

I've come here to expand my knowledge and seek advice to get over my fear of approaching women I'm attracted to, particularly in the bar scene.
Its quite annoying when you have plenty of IOIs and eye contact but have this psychological block stopping you in your tracks- "She's looking, but what the heck do I say?" "I just know I'll bore her to death and seem like a creep".

Well, my self improvement journey starts here!

[Dannyboy]

Originally Posted by Darkhorse27

Hello from South Wales!

I've come here to expand my knowledge and seek advice to get over my fear of approaching women I'm attracted to, particularly in the bar scene.
Its quite annoying when you have plenty of IOIs and eye contact but have this psychological block stopping you in your tracks- "She's looking, but what the heck do I say?" "I just know I'll bore her to death and seem like a creep".

Well, my self improvement journey starts here!

Live and die by the 3 second rule
If you stick to forcing yourself to move within 3 seconds of seeing her and at least open its a start
And remember Women are just as stupid / boring!

One final point to remember. This weekend out with a group of friends and two really nice girls (8/10) were sat across from us. My friend, recently single kept looking but did not approach. Finally I had to go and opened them both.
Literally before I even had chance to open my mouth the girl said 'So you finally came over? Your friend has been looking at me weird for more than 10 minutes.'

They notice our weird looks.. so move anyway