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Barney Stinson 04-04-2013 11:04 PM

1 man on a mission to success
 
First of all, the username. Well I like the tv show How I Met Your Mother and as in terms of PU, I thought it could be appropriate and add to an interesting story for the future kids haha.

So, me. Well I'm 20 and from Stockton, which is basically a tiny place about an hour away from Newcastle. I want to move ASAP. Worked in Devon for 8 months and started reading and watching some RSD and just got hooked. Tyler was awesome, even in Strauss's book "The Game", natural seems more real.

Had girlfriends before, when I went to work in Devon I left my girlfriend, my previous job, with all intent to stay down there but it didn't work out. So I came back frustrated.

I always find throwing myself in the deep end, beyond your comfort zone brings out more learning. I'm not uncomfortable talking about myself but I'm not comfortable either, 50/50. I find it hard to show self worth with people I've never met before so in a way, that is a major factor to why I want to succeed; I love the idea of just been able to talk to whoever you like.

I don't like confinement, the feeling that you should only stay in your city. That's essentially why I took the job in Devon so I'd be up for travelling around improving my game.

But guys, don't expect too much in the skills sector yet! I've listened to Tyler's Blueprint Decoded, phenomenal. Now just wanting to improve.
Cool site, looking forward to speaking with you guys!

db x 05-04-2013 01:48 AM

Hey man welcome!
I was born in Stockton! Get yourself to that Ku Bar if you don't already, I've never been but I've heard some good stories!

nova 05-04-2013 10:44 AM

Cool intro. Welcome man.

Barney Stinson 05-04-2013 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by db x (Post 74010)
Hey man welcome!
I was born in Stockton! Get yourself to that Ku Bar if you don't already, I've never been but I've heard some good stories!

Wow small world huh? Did you move to Leeds to increase improve your game?
I don't go on nights out in Stockton, al the prostitutes fucking annoy me and the last time I did some shit went down in the toilets and I ended up waiting outside for fucking hours whilst the police came and did their thing. Just can't be arsed with Stockton haha.
Will sometimes go out to Middlesbrough but ideally I want to get out and about in other places more, like midlands, down South and even in Scotland.

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Originally Posted by nova (Post 74024)
Cool intro. Welcome man.

Cheers dude. Read your ever growing thread on your Day Game. This is where I fall down a lot.
Could you give me the low-down on what you do i.e. how you approach and what kind of openers you'd use (direct/in-direct)?
I seriously want to get this part of my game sorted.

db x 06-04-2013 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Barney Stinson (Post 74028)
Wow small world huh? Did you move to Leeds to increase improve your game?
I don't go on nights out in Stockton, al the prostitutes fucking annoy me and the last time I did some shit went down in the toilets and I ended up waiting outside for fucking hours whilst the police came and did their thing. Just can't be arsed with Stockton haha.
Will sometimes go out to Middlesbrough but ideally I want to get out and about in other places more, like midlands, down South and even in Scotland.

I've lived all over mate and to be honest I'm not sure why I keep moving but it definitely helps build character.

Get down to that Ku bar seriously it's not supposed to be like the rest of Stockton, I grew up in boro and loads of my mates from boro go to Stockton just for Ku bar & women lol.

Leeds is good for women but I'd say boro is better/easier tbh, go live in some dirty European holiday resort over summer if your main focus is picking up, that's what I done when I first got into this, your the right age and you'l soon get sucess in one of them places..

Barney Stinson 08-04-2013 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by db x (Post 74117)
I've lived all over mate and to be honest I'm not sure why I keep moving but it definitely helps build character.

Get down to that Ku bar seriously it's not supposed to be like the rest of Stockton, I grew up in boro and loads of my mates from boro go to Stockton just for Ku bar & women lol.

Leeds is good for women but I'd say boro is better/easier tbh, go live in some dirty European holiday resort over summer if your main focus is picking up, that's what I done when I first got into this, your the right age and you'l soon get sucess in one of them places..

Yeah man definitely, I felt 10 times better when I moved to Devon.

I might check it out then, suppose there's no harm in doing so. Ohh man haha I'm originally from Eston but now I live not far from Stockton area, just on the outskirts really, ever heard of Wynyard?

Boro is easy I agree with that haha, Hartlepool; girls just come begging to you for sex. I remember pulling a milf with her husband near her and her little baby son. I actually ejected away but she was like "I'll see you again won't I!?" haha, that definitely made my lunch break!
I'm thinking of going on a months holiday to North America, just my English accent will bag me a few girls! I've started quite young, you're right. I'm pritty sure all I can do is improve from now on.

daleinthedark 08-04-2013 11:43 AM

Hey Barney
welcome along! I used to live in Devon, where abouts were you working?
good luck, get out there and have fun!

Barney Stinson 08-04-2013 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark (Post 74237)
Hey Barney
welcome along! I used to live in Devon, where abouts were you working?
good luck, get out there and have fun!

Awesome man!

I used to work in Torrington. It's about 15 minutes away from Barnstaple and we had Westward Ho! Beach so lot's of the beach parties.

I'm trying to work on my mindset aswell since I just chicken out of an approach where the girl was clearly intrigued by me and my social group.
I need to adopt an almost 'be your own man' mindset because 90% of not approaching was down to the thought of how I'd be perceived to everyone in the place.


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