Trouble in Paradise

[ninjaelephant]

HI Guys

Ive started seeing this estonia girl , its nothing heavy, just fuck at hers, go for drinks/cinema ) which we are both happy with

I actually enjoy talking to her.. deep conversations...drinks and laughs..and the sex is far better then im use too.

Problem is now that ive started comparing girls to her in my head because she is awesome, and I am having clingy thougts in my head. i am also neglecting my other romantic companions as I now cba sticking my wick in


My other issue is that with almost every girl ive been with in the past..I havnt really gave a fuck..so ive still treated them nice..but wouldnt go out my way to suprise them,do nice romantic gestures etc

But I want to do nice/surpising things for this estonia girl... im worried that this either scare her off ( as good looking girls normally get guys trating thme like this ) I feel once I have given her all my cards she will snap them out of my hand and rip them up.. as the chase has ended

I am thinking like a girl and I dont like it

Thoughts/Advice Guys

Cheers

[nova]

Originally Posted by ninjaelephant

But I want to do nice/surpising things for this estonia girl... im worried that this either scare her off ( as good looking girls normally get guys trating thme like this )

The difference here is the other guys are trying to get something from her, i.e. sex. You are already in this zone, and obviously did not try to buy her. Treating a girl to things is ok, if well balanced. You seem to like her. Don't wreck things by overthinking it all. Chill.

[ninjaelephant]

Thank you , that makes sense

I feel that if this happend to someone else I could easily give advice..just not to ym self

I seem to overthink allot of situations

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Hmmmm I feel gay thinking like this