When to make the next move?
 

Sup guys,

Kiss closed then Number closed this HB last night but I didn't really even speak to her (we were both drunk and dancing)

Question is, when should iI text her and what can I say to make sure she doesn't flake?

Willy

I used one of Kowlaski's ideas bout sending randon chicks a funny/odd txt message the other day... I asked her "if you were to strangle a smurf what colour would it go" I had a response with in 5 mins to which I ignored then the following day I had bout 3 missed calls I finally answered the phone and she was goin nuts asking who I was... eventually she played ball and decided that a smurf would go red followed by a make sure u txt me later!

Finally found a nice niche in which to txt girls with instead of the boring "hi it's flush from the other night" never get a response back!!

Flush :nana:

Thanks for the advice guys, I txt her yesterday and went ok, at first she was like whos this, but that was just because i didnt say, the next message was like "were you the one I was dancing with?" so all good.

I said I would txt her if i was bored and she txt back saying "How rude, txt me if you get bored! lol x"

So next thing is, setting up a day 2. I work away during the week so will be back on the weekend, im usually pretty busy on saturdays so it would be best on like a fri night or sun.

Im not sure how old she is so I doubt any alcohol will be involved. I was thinking of just taking her bowling or something but it seems cheesy?

man i have a lot to learn, help a brother out!

I once said bowling was cheesy and a friend i used to work with suggested going to a golf driving range.

Sounds strange I know but if it something you both have not done then you both guna look as stupid as each other trying to hit the ball... also can open up to a lil bit of banter and kino..

Shits and giggles will occur!!

Flush :nana:

Thanks again dudes!

gonna set up a "meeting" just need to ask a few qs first.

Im gonna say something like, "im going XXXX on sat, I think you should come with" or, "I was going to invite my mate but thought I would ask you instead"

Plus could i add "as long as you dont think its a date"

That seem ok?

And if she stars giving me poor excuses would it be ok to say something like, "It's ok, I know what you are thinking, this guy might not be as hot as i remember etc, but hey, who said im going to fancy you?" or, "It's not a date, if we dont fancy eachother we can just be friends?"

Lol I ask so many questions, i think i try and plan each step too much but oh well.:hihi:

Haha I like your style but not sure it would work for me

Thanks anyway:D

Well i said i was going somewhere and she should come with me.

after a "why etc" message the reply was

"il think about it x"

I was going to just leave it down to her but thought if she hasn't replied in a coupe of days i could say "have you got permission yet?" or something cheeky.

What do you think? leave it?

:2guns:

I like!!!!

Have fun like you're wholesome, then when you get her attention you could invite her again into a night out. Just talk and listen, so simple! girls are a sucker for guys who love to listen to their thoughts or feelings.