negs, help!

[woody]

need help with negs, not good at giving negative comments to hb10s, any ideas? would be interested in examples proven in field. In addition as I am new I think its important to say that the reason I ask is that women see me as a good guy, that’s not bad but can easily result in me being put in friend zone. My last year of uni this year so going to make the most of it. I’m hopeless at flirting, have a lot going for myself, good prospects ect. Not looking for relationship. Will try almost anything you guys can think of, fearless on approach but have trouble sometimes with what to say, who doesn’t lol. so willing to test out any material anyone is unsure of unless offensive or not original. very interested in original ideas and like stories, dont like most openers but understand the need for them. Going to be a crash dummy for the year! Lol. going to and crash and burn and like it!

[Red]

Hey man,

I wouldn't worry too much about "negative comments", but don't forget to tease (readup on push/pull)...if she says something dumb then call her on it and have a laugh...they love that...some of the best reactions I've had off girls was when I was taking the piss out of them (nicely).

Having said that, I did just think of a variation on a common theme the other day, "your hair is really nice like that....did you do it yourself, or...?". I've not used it.

[Tom]

Haha! I love your crash dummy don't care attitude.

If you don't find negs are natural to you then maybe just don't do them because you'll be too in your head thinking about where to fit one in instead of just enjoying the interaction.

You might benefit from showing more intent towards the girl by touching her (but try not to look at your hand or concentrate on it when you do) or turning things more sexual then you won't get stuck in the friends zone.

It sounds like you have no problem with approaching or talking to girls I reckon you just need to show them that you like them more then you'll be well away.

Also you might want to try going up in a happy fun state and letting conversation flow rather than being stuck in your head trying to think of things to say.

[spark]

I found the "you can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere" works quite well. Wait for her to say something stupid or even if she swears and then his the group with it.

Follow up with a niceish commment e.g. its a good job you have have a fashion sense, no how to dress, pick shoese etc. Things women are bothered about and it shows you've noticed somat that other guys gernerally don't!

Here's some of the stuff I've been using.

you can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere (after she'd said something pretty vulgar)

If you'd not made the effort colour co-ordinating your eyes liner and clothes I would have gone by now

Like I said, I need to get back to my mates unless of course the conversation this conversation becomes interesting in the next few minutes (said with cocky smile)

Nice shoe's.... But not matching with a handbag, thats a cardinel sin for a woman!

Is that your real haircolour? (Only if you know a bit about hair and can follow it up with some compliments about the effort she's made)

Are you wearing hair extentions? As above

I can probably think of some and post on here later. Tone and facial of expressions are so important with this stuff. With some negs if you look as though your being really sincere then you could bomb!

I use a "praise sandwhich" method... Positive comment - Neg - Positive comment = She takes notice but only really remembers the last comment which should be a feel good factor otherwise push/pull/push

Negs are the one thing in my game that are next to perfect... Because im a saracastic bastard!