so i think she has a boyfriend

[top-hat]

i've been texting this girl who was all over me when we first met, i've been at uni for about 6 weeks now. now my roommate told me she has a boyfriend at home after we met. i tried to facebook close her and she said she was deleting her facebook, which means that she has something to hide, basically my question is because my aim is not to get an ltr keep going or not do anything at all because the fact that she may have boyfriend does not make it achievable.

[Maxemillion]

wtf uni girls dump their long distance boyfriends 99% of the time. but first there has to be that 'new uni guy' to make them do it. whethr u get a piece or some1 else does, she is breaking up with the old bf. no doubt.

[top-hat]

lol just found out he's in another uni in london, think i should still pursue this?
or am i just trying to find a reason not to pursue...thats the pua thing to say

[daleinthedark]

Originally Posted by top-hat

my question is because my aim is not to get an ltr

keep going or not do anything at all?

It is achievable, as Maxemillion says Uni couples split up most of the time.

But why this 1 girl inparticular? Why a girl with a boyfriend? If you are just looking for friend with benifits surely go for somebody who is also care free and single. Leave them to split up under their own steam...

[top-hat]

if she wants to remain faithful, she wouldve told me, but instead shes trying to hide him...weird

[Refl3x]

i would just say look im not really arsed if you ahve a boyfriend or not
lets just go out and have a laugh

then arrange to go out and bum her

[top-hat]

Originally Posted by Refl3x

i would just say look im not really arsed if you ahve a boyfriend or not
lets just go out and have a laugh

then arrange to go out and bum her

haha, but i think i'll say this if she tells me she has a boyfriend, i dnt want her to start thinking about him

[Refl3x]

shes only gonna tell you if she has a boyfriend when she has already decided in her head to give you the shoe.

if shes not ready to dump him yet. i would casually just throw into a conversation that your not arsed if she has a boyfriend or not (dont even ask her directly if she has one)

Ive been out with girls before who i have been suspicious have a boyfriend and they are actually relieved that your not arsed and they dont have to pretend anymore
the fact they have to lie on 2 fronts ends up with them firing you off, at least if you say your not arsed they only have to hide it from their fella and not you

obviously all this depends on your morals etc and thats for you to reason and sleep with.

[top-hat]

Originally Posted by Refl3x

shes only gonna tell you if she has a boyfriend when she has already decided in her head to give you the shoe.

if shes not ready to dump him yet. i would casually just throw into a conversation that your not arsed if she has a boyfriend or not (dont even ask her directly if she has one)

Ive been out with girls before who i have been suspicious have a boyfriend and they are actually relieved that your not arsed and they dont have to pretend anymore
the fact they have to lie on 2 fronts ends up with them firing you off, at least if you say your not arsed they only have to hide it from their fella and not you

obviously all this depends on your morals etc and thats for you to reason and sleep with.

cheers i'll try it out...what do i have to lose