How do I stop this getting serious!!
 

Hi Guys-

I have been seeing this girl for about 1 month now, I only see her once a week... but things seem to me moving in the ''relationship'' way!

I don't really have deep feelings for her, but I do like her for the person she is, and the sex is great. we are going camping together in the lakes next weekend I don't want to be classed as an Item! but feel she is moving in that direction.


I only realized this today when another girl asked me to go on a bike ride with her! loads of guilt came over me when I said YES! even though its only a bike ride iam still going to try and rail her in the woods... lol.


How do I move away from the relationship ''status''!?!? if any of you guys see me change it on facebook shoot me at dawn...lol


Sinstyle.

You have to tell her that you are not after or not ready for a serious relationship. Don't worry you're not lying you're being honest with her. Tell her you enjoy her company and you still want to see her but not in a serious way if she doesn't want that then walk away or you will only end up hurting her if your heart is not into a proper relationship.

Yeah I totally agree with Tom on this one. Your only real option is to tell her you don't want anything serious and it's not what you want at this stage in life.
Sure, you could potentially be losing out on great sex BUT in the long run it will make life far easier for you and also it saves you from being a twat to her.

Also, you know you can get yourself another woman who wants what you want ;) you've been proving this!

My two cents

Ritz

Same advice really. Just tell her you arent after a relationship. I had this last month. Was seeing this girl two weekends in a row and then 1 sunday night, I got a text saying Im really fond of you and want to know how you feel about me...I knew where she was going with the question and I had to tell her that I wasnt looking for anything serious and it was up to her whether she could accept that and would still see me again. And I got all this "oh im so hurt, you should be leading me on, you using me for sex"...! But she got over it and never heard from her since...! I should have made it clear from the very beginning but I never thought she would fall for me...! Hence all her accusations!!

Honesty the best policy I guess! Good luck dood!