The dreaded text
 

Right - brain-picking time lads. Earlier today, after suggesting a fun day out with this girl, I received the "I'll think about it + some other random question" text (give me a break). I figure to leave it, not reply and let her stew (it's either her trying to tag me along by playing hard to get or her not having the balls to say she's just not that into me).

Any thoughts and advice boys?

Keep it real
Blanca

I reckon you should be like, "alright, well we can do it some other time maybe, my mates wanna do this/that anyway"

The random question shows she isnt cutting you off. Remember man, your time is valuable and she was lucky you offered to spend it with her.

Tell her ' don't take too long to think about it cos i will have replaced you by then ;)' let her know she cant rule the roost.