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31-08-2011, 07:52 AM
I've been playing around, on and off, with POF for almost a year, running online game etc. It's taken me a while, but I've formulated a damned good spot on profile that guarantees messages from chicks...
POF is fast paced, there's a lot of competition which means your game needs to be tight. I have no issues talking to girls, keeping them sweet and getting their numbers - the issue is, getting them to go on a date?? There comes a point at the 11th hour where girls seem to lose interest - I'm putting this down to high competition. I need ways to keep them interested, or maintaining a mystery - we all know how women can't resist a mystery! I was wondering if anyone has any thoughts/comments, ways forward etc...      
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31-08-2011, 08:54 AM
I find if i get a responce back from a girl i message on ANY dating site - 95% of the time i will get their number and have the option of going on a date if i choose to.
why - because they find me attractive from my pictures and normal from what i say to them. if you are sending them messages saying you have mnagic powers and your name is Mr Magoo -- they may be replying because its funny but ultimately they are not attracted to you, so after you have exchanged 20 messages and get knowewhere. bare this in mind...
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31-08-2011, 09:47 AM
You know I always hate these internet dating guide but you you take the reccomendations from this blog mix in a little PUA and flirt a little for your first message
have an awesome profile that's a work-in-progress with decent pictures of yourself (comon we all have a friend who's a photographer) You are guaranteed lays. I never really got into online game until recently. I invested a couple of hours sculpting a profile, choosing a couple of decent pictures and putting on filters etc. now I have a pof date or 2 every week!
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31-08-2011, 10:40 PM
Thanks gents, that's very useful! Refl3x - I know exactly what you mean... going down the entertainment route, telling girls I have magic powers and will turn them into frogs if they don't reply is going to lead nowhere!
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01-09-2011, 07:54 AM
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I gave up on online dating myself as I'm only 5'7" and have a face like a slapped arse. It does ultimately come down to if they are attracted to you, they have options imo. Shame really cos Online dating would be the perfect solution to living in a small country town and having a solitary job
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01-09-2011, 11:32 AM
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why - because they find me attractive from my pictures and normal from what i say to them Quote:
 Do what works for you mate
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01-09-2011, 01:00 PM
Cheers mate.
Working on having an active social life, approaching women I fancy rather than hiding form them and making more statements of intent. Recently come back for a holiday in Majorca when I went out 6 nights on the trot (4 nights in Majorca, 2 in Blighty). Was amazed by the difference if you just cut the crap and say that you think the girl is cute.
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01-09-2011, 03:51 PM
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Its not mystery you need to be promoting its that you want a relationship, POF girls have been fucked about most are emotional basket cases or the walking wounded, or have major self esteem issues. They are only good for one thing and its not girlfriend material. By all means be mysterious but if you convince one your motives our a honest relationship and not sex and ditching her sorry arse, you're in. Then ditch her sorry arse after shes opens her knees. Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her. It’s the only way to get good Top 10 ebooks | Flaking | Revitalizing Old Numbers | Cold Reading Pussy | Being a Challenge to Women
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01-09-2011, 10:26 PM
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Just don't let her know too much about you, cos them bitches psycho
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02-09-2011, 12:22 PM
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When as this ever bothered me? Hah and it is true Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her. It’s the only way to get good Top 10 ebooks | Flaking | Revitalizing Old Numbers | Cold Reading Pussy | Being a Challenge to Women
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