Being natural is the way forward!

[Giant]

I've just been out with a couple of friends, not been thinking about pick up, not really using much pick up, but 4 number closes & a kiss close. No real effort involved, I've just been comfortable within myself and having fun, this IS the way forward.
Drew

[dan300]

Im gunna start bein more direct & natural too, some of that cheesy american stuff from mystery & style just feels wrong over here (no disrespect to them cos if it werent for them we wouldnt be here, & dont get me wrong a lot of thier stuff is spot on) but there are women i have pulled before & i used every step in mystery method (before i even knew of pick up) & its cool to look back on cos i did it naturally.

My situation is messed up right now though cos there is so much drama going on in my life that i dont even have time to think.

When my ex has our baby & everything settles down i am relocating to somewhere thats buzzing & full of hot quality chicks.

Ive made my mind up, im up & leaving this fucking shithole

[Knave]

Originally Posted by Giant

I've just been out with a couple of friends, not been thinking about pick up, not really using much pick up, but 4 number closes & a kiss close. No real effort involved, I've just been comfortable within myself and having fun, this IS the way forward.
Drew

Good stuff but imagine how much better you would have done if you'd used PUA methods.

[Phil]

Originally Posted by Knave

Good stuff but imagine how much better you would have done if you'd used PUA methods.

not sure if ur serious??

[Knave]

Originally Posted by kowalski

Is there any evidence that training wheels actually help in learning to ride a bicycle? I'm not aware of any. I'm sure they don't have them much in the countries of the world where people cycle the most, so possibly they are superfluous or even retardant to the processes of learning to cycle.

In your analogy there is a human interacting with some inanimate objects that always respond the same way to the same stimulus, in chatting girls a human is interacting with another human.

For these, and other, reasons (though these are sufficient) the analogy is fatally flawed.


Peace,

kowalski

This answer is fatally flawed.

[Phil]

Originally Posted by Knave

This answer is fatally flawed.

i wouldnt say its flawed.

they dont help in the actual learning process... they just give a sense of security in "RIDING A BIKE" before you take the leap

whilst doing this it creates a bigger problem of needing to remove the stabilisers,

its human retarded need to learn then unlearn....to learn

[dan300]

Originally Posted by kowalski

No you didn't.

Before reading MM no one was opening over the shoulder, approaching at a 45° angle, body rocking, using false time constraints, etc., etc., that would just be weird. There is no way you would have exhibited all those behaviours without reading them first.

Ok, so i should have only said some of the steps, i did negging (which most people do anyway it was just banter to me before i knew it had a name) & false takeaways (by not standing for some bitch cockteasing & flirting with everyone & trying to make a knob out of you) so i had two steps at least, i only slightly exaggerated

Negging is a complimentary insult, not banter. To bring a girl down off her "pedestal" where she thinks she is too good for everyone.

"I love your dress, I saw some girl wearing it upstairs"