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Default dilemma - LTR vs new girl - 27-08-2011, 09:01 AM

Well, I've gone and put myself in a dilemma.
Met a new girl the other night just to meet some new people in the area but after knowing her a couple of weeks and a lot of fluff stuff on text,email, and phone, she's asking when am I going to ask her out on a date! She's fairly fit but I'm in a LTR that's not going so well and I'm tempted to try something on with the new girl but probably shouldn't. Do I tell the new girl that I'm already seeing someone or that I'm not looking for anything serious?
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Default 27-08-2011, 09:36 AM

How long has your LTR been in a pickle? Is it worth ending your LTR and endeavouring in dating and seeing other girls?

I was once in this position and chose the LTR which for my situation was a mistake. Evaluate you LTR - if you think it has legs and a future then work it out by sitting down and having an honest chat. If it doesn't then end it. It's really hard to do either so I don't envy you but it's the only way you can be happy and successful in your dilemma.

If you have been chatting up this HB for several weeks she probably wont be happy if you tell her you're in an LTR, as you chose not to tell her until now...


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Default 27-08-2011, 09:37 AM

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Well, I've gone and put myself in a dilemma.
Met a new girl the other night just to meet some new people in the area but after knowing her a couple of weeks and a lot of fluff stuff on text,email, and phone, she's asking when am I going to ask her out on a date! She's fairly fit but I'm in a LTR that's not going so well and I'm tempted to try something on with the new girl but probably shouldn't. Do I tell the new girl that I'm already seeing someone or that I'm not looking for anything serious?
hang on! so your just gonna cheat on ur gf??

and if not, why have u been texing, emailing & calling a girl u recently met?


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Default 27-08-2011, 11:11 AM

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Well, I've gone and put myself in a dilemma.
Met a new girl the other night just to meet some new people in the area but after knowing her a couple of weeks and a lot of fluff stuff on text,email, and phone, she's asking when am I going to ask her out on a date! She's fairly fit but I'm in a LTR that's not going so well and I'm tempted to try something on with the new girl but probably shouldn't. Do I tell the new girl that I'm already seeing someone or that I'm not looking for anything serious?
HAHAHA The seed has been planted, your LTR is fucking OVER, when a man starts having thoughts like this it means that he on some level no longer see's the emotional benefit of the existing LTR.

The fact that you have even posted this on the forum means that this has taken up ALOT of your thought time, you probably already have a list of pros and cons to cheating on your girl.

My advice is to dump your girl as your shopping around anyway and go FUCK this girl and FUCK HER HARD. lol
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Default 27-08-2011, 11:33 AM

Wading in with my own 'game' morality there is nothing wrong with seeeing 15 girls at the same time, its difficult to manage but there is nothing wrong with it. They don't need to know about each other but you don't tell them you love them or make future plans.

Whereas having a LTR and texting other women is fucking bad man. You are clearly suited to the 'game' lifestyle in which case dump her or stop texting girls, coming to this site, stay with your girl and put some serious effort into the relationship.


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Default 27-08-2011, 02:24 PM

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What happened to your 'all or nothing' bullshit from the last thread? Stop lying to yourself.


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Point taken but it's still all or nothing. If something's not going well in a LTR then I'm losing interest and attraction.
I just haven't figured out whether it's worth it or not and unfortunately, I've met someone else (nothing happened yet) just to confuse things a bit more.

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Lets face reality here. It seems like you are interested in this new HB and tempted to meet her. Now if you choose to stay with your LTR you will be expecting a lot from her as you give up this girl for her however she would never know about your sacrifice. So in my opinion go ahead with this HB.
No way of knowing whether it would work out with the HB.

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Default 27-08-2011, 02:28 PM

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How long has your LTR been in a pickle? Is it worth ending your LTR and endeavouring in dating and seeing other girls?

I was once in this position and chose the LTR which for my situation was a mistake. Evaluate you LTR - if you think it has legs and a future then work it out by sitting down and having an honest chat. If it doesn't then end it. It's really hard to do either so I don't envy you but it's the only way you can be happy and successful in your dilemma.

If you have been chatting up this HB for several weeks she probably wont be happy if you tell her you're in an LTR, as you chose not to tell her until now...
Except I was chatting to her with the intention of just meeting some people socially...she just happens to be an HB and wants some of the GenePoole cock.

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hang on! so your just gonna cheat on ur gf??

and if not, why have u been texing, emailing & calling a girl u recently met?
No, don't want to do that but I admit I'm tempted and she is a nice girl. Reality is I can't just ignore her now so I have to say something...she's expecting a date or something soon.
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Default 27-08-2011, 02:41 PM

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When i say go ahead i meant go and bang her and then decide what you want. Lastly if you are in a LTR and you are on this forum that means you are not satisfied with what you got. Be honest with yourself and then go for it.
Like a revenge fuck - that would probably sort me out but it's not a good thing to do. I did that once before in my life and it ended the LTR because I wasn;t grown up enough to say no...clearly am still not
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Default 27-08-2011, 03:13 PM

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No, don't want to do that but I admit I'm tempted and she is a nice girl. Reality is I can't just ignore her now so I have to say something...she's expecting a date or something soon.
you have already cheated, ur having texts with another girl...

all that sanctimonious crap u wer giving in ur last thread its all FOO FOO

the same with all of u lot, any of u who claim your moraly better than the rest of us, see what happens when for the first time a FITTY throws it on ur toes

it ok having morals if your an ugly cunt who cant get none, then when u realise a decent chick wanna fuck ... it wernt morals u have... its no choices.


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Default 27-08-2011, 03:19 PM

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you have already cheated, ur having texts with another girl...

all that sanctimonious crap u wer giving in ur last thread its all FOO FOO

the same with all of u lot, any of u who claim your moraly better than the rest of us, see what happens when for the first time a FITTY throws it on ur toes

it ok having morals if your an ugly cunt who cant get none, then when u realise a decent chick wanna fuck ... it wernt morals u have... its no choices.


HUMANS ARE OUT FOR THEMSELVES

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Morals! No place for morals here sunshine.

This is PUA forum I'll quote wiki
'Pickup receives mixed responses from the press and general public, many people viewing it as immoral and or unethical'


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