So Blowjobs

[Darood]

If you want a blow job you could go out and try to get one. But if you don’t you'lll feel bad because you didn’t get what you want.

How it’s rationalized it depends on each person, the people who blame the world are the most lost. The people who blame the themselves are the most hurt.

While it’s the people who we see most having success are the people who blame the world who go on about their blowjob getting. They will never improve or progress and their path should not concern us.

It’s the people who blame themselves that achieve are important. Because if your here you are one of these people.

It’s that twinge of pain you have to deal with, that attack of your own mind which tells you you’re not good enough. The cruel bastard even repeats over and over your own humiliation when you weren’t good enough to get that fucking blow job.

So what can you do?

Pretty soon you start to say to yourself. Nah I'm just out to see my mates and if I see any fanny I like its cool, I know what to do. You change the goal from what your heart drive tells you want to something as nice but less risky. Then you check out motherless.com and see how unnatural your escapes are.

But what else is there? The next person who says doesn’t give shit just needs to slap a stranger on a train with only their own witness to see if it’s possible.

Or you can just accept it. That pain that comes from regret. You learn from it. You accept yourself exactly as you are right now. Accept what you can and can’t do and take this as the point of growth.

Aim for the next step, Don’t come home gutted you didn’t get the stripper who made eye contact with you even though you read the game and had never talked to a girl before that.

Learn to accept pain, fear and vulnerability as part of the process.

Just whatever you do.

Do not give up. Even when it feels you you’re doing something better.

You’re not.

Keep going till you win.

There are no peaks only plateaus. There are better things than wanking, it’s called a blow job. The more people you get them off the happier you are in the end.

[Lovefish]

Awsome post,bj`s are definately the way
I get you on just accepting pain, fear and vulnerability,but carrying on despite your failures.For me i try to think every kb is a failure closer to that elusive head recieving sesh

[chops147]

I've been really depressed recently and this has helped me identify the cause thanks.

[Maxemillion]

or get a vacuum cleaner

[daleinthedark]

Blowjobs - Have you had your 5-a-day?

[Refl3x]

Ive had 100s of blowjobs off diferent girls -- what makes me laugh is almost every girl you meet will say

'I give the best blowjobs ever'
-because the 5 guys they have ever give head to are douches who would have told them anything.

when they are sucking you off you are thinking - 'ive had better 5 out of 10'
i end up teaching them how to give better head

good head doesnt even come with age - my best blowjobs have been off young girls

Originally Posted by Refl3x

Ive had 100s of blowjobs off diferent girls -- what makes me laugh is almost every girl you meet will say

'I give the best blowjobs ever'
-because the 5 guys they have ever give head to are douches who would have told them anything.

when they are sucking you off you are thinking - 'ive had better 5 out of 10'
i end up teaching them how to give better head

good head doesnt even come with age - my best blowjobs have been off young girls

This is dead true.. if you don't tell them they're shit (nicely) then how can they improve?