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26-08-2011, 08:31 AM
I've got issues with MLTR
1. feel like i'm decieving the girls 2. Not open that my intentions are to have multiple long term relationships Ideally, i'd like to be open about it that i'm just having fun and i have intentions to see as many girls as i like Does anyone know any good links to MLTR information or do you have suggestions.     
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26-08-2011, 09:30 AM
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Communication and honesty. 'The race is long, and in the end, it is only with yourself'
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26-08-2011, 04:27 PM
Savage like Zed said - you have to define your meaning of a relationship
I think what you are really looking for are several good friends with benefits, you hang out, do stuff and have sex. You don't need to deceive the girls you want to do this with, just be honest with them "look I'm not looking to get into anything too serious with anybody atm, but I'd like to take you on a date" Then just make sure you keep the girl in frame about what your "thing" is and pull them up if they start describing you as their boyfriend etc... But to have several LTRs is a hard thing to do unless you are Mormon 
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27-08-2011, 12:24 AM
So when you say be honest with them, do you mean just say to them that I am dating other girls also. Or do you mean just make it clear that I'm not in a relationship with them.
I cant imagine anyone being happy with me saying i'm dating other wemon as well as themselves.
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27-08-2011, 12:52 AM
well you can be as grey as you want. It depends how upfront you are with them at the start.
For instance I have a translator FB atm. At the start I was honest "Look I think you are really attractive and fancy the pants off you but I dont think we get on well enough to have a relationship but I'd still like to see you as more than a friend". Personally I tend not to mention seeing other people but assume that they are too. I also try not to see them more than once/twice a week so it doesnt get too serious and you can divide your time up equally. It wont work every time as some girls want more but if you have an abundance attitude and always approach you should always be able to have at least 1 girl you are seeing. Phil would probably be the best bloke to answer this...
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