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Has anybody have any experience of using speed seduction techiniques on sex/swinger type websites. I am trying to write a good advert/profile on a swinger website that will have woman dying to contact me.

I am sure you know this but just because a woman is sexually liberated and advertising on a sex website does not men she is an easy lay or somebody who will jump into bed with anybody at a drop of a hat.

The problem with sex dating websites is the men vastly outnumber the women (it is also the same for normal dating websites). Some women complain they get about 25 - 100 messages a day from single men. So I want to make myself stand out. I don't want to come across as another desperate AFC.

I want to write a profile/advert that is different and gets women who read my profile hot and bothered lol. I want the words/patterns used to make them want to contact me. If my advert/profile gets them contacting me then to me this is a plus in that they contacted me first I am not just another AFC who contacted them first.

It will also be interesting to see if NLP/speed seduction can work with just words as you cannot use other speed seduction skills like anchoring etc

Hey, tbh mate I think its really hard using websites to contact women as shows instant low value because it looks like you're too scared to speak to girls in person(Though the girls are there because either they want an ego trip or they want sex/relationship so it is definately possible to get a lay). The best way really to counterract this would be by having lots of pics with you with girls etc. I'm not saying you shouldn't try it but its definately very hard to stand out on a dating site. My best advice is be original, be funny and be the most interesting person on there

I tried dating not sex ones though and I found it to be a total waste of time I've had much more success and fun in the field.
My advice is find some wings in your area go out and have a good time trying to pick up women, you might not manage it straight away (i didn't) but you will have such a good time and make some awesome inspiring friends.
If you keep at it you won't need any websites you can just go out and find it or it will bump into you in a club it did with me last week.

Go on get out there I did and I don't regret it

Hear hear Tom. I too tried a dating websites about 2 yrs ago. I ended up meeting quite a nice looking asian girl... who was boring, and what I thought was an exciting Irish girl... who ended up fatter than her photo would suggest.

Meeting girls in the flesh is THE only way forward for me now. It can be fun to dabble with this online stuff but you end up relying on it, forget about interacting with girls in real life, and spending hours, days and weeks on it (like a guy at work currently is!). It creates a distorted view of reality if you ask me.

thetiggler,

Tom and Nova are absolutely right! There maybe less of a stigma surrounding online dating websites these days but my personal opinion is its abit of a cop out and is no substitute for meeting people spontaneously in the real world.

It creates a distorted view of reality if you ask me.

Novas completely right, its all too easy to hide behind smokescreens and for people to portray a distorted version of themselves online, when in the real world in face to face conversation things are much more exposed, body language, tonality and subtext give a much more clearer version of two people.

Close down your match.com (or whatever) account now and come out with boys.

And to answer your question, No I don't think NLP/Speed seduction will be as effective in text format as opposed to face to face.

No comment ...... *waits for Legend to give his input*

This is the most important point of all. All the opportunities are there and all the girls are there waiting for us as we speak. It's time to stop hiding behind the monitor. Risks are going to have to be taken. Sure things might be uncomfortable, and sure we'll all have failures. But the failures are what will shape our success.

Michael Jordan sums this up in this fine quote:

'I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed'

Surprise surprise, who rises from the ashes to have a pop at me...:D :D!! Haha!

Sorry Swype, I cant comment either cos I dont do dating sites let alone sex sites. My success comes from only two Social Network sites faceparty & facebook although faceparty was 2 years ago.

It does bother me though when online sarging is generally classified as "hiding behind the monitor"....I probably go out most weekend now, either a Fri or Sat, as it is probably the only time I can go out. The last two weekends I was out, I #-closed. With my hours and rate being cut at work, and with 2 mortgages, 2 sets of bills etc etc and 3 gorgeous kids to feed, I have spent three evenings/week trading the market ;) so yes the monitor has been my company...and that is in between having my kids over, going to the gym, learning salsa etc etc...! Life is good!

In terms internet sarging, I can spend an hour or so exchanging messages, then get a phone number, involve in texting game, arrange a Day1/2, close, and then move on. Called it PUA, called it Social Awesome...I dont know but I got nothing to hide behind a monitor or otherwise (maybe a big brown bag lol) when I meet these HBs.

In terms of scouring the field, well as I said Im out most weekend, still with differing degree of success but as long as I am having fun, im building my confidence, improving my inner game, it is all good...as Jynxy would say "keep progressing"...!

Much Success folks...see you in the field!

pqrs094... have you got any Primark polo shirts?