Semi-flake.

[Giant]

Hey guys, here's the situation. A couple of weeks ago I started chatting to this girl at the bus stop on the way home from an evening out. We ended up walking rather than waiting for the bus. She seemed really keen, seemed really keen to give me her number. Tbh I think she'd have come back and "seen my kitten" that night if I'd invited her, I didn't.
Anyway I text her a couple of days later, we arranged to meet up for a coffee last sunday (we'd been talking about costa vs starbucks among other things)
She stopped texting in the middle of a conversation, I text her on the sunday and sort of assumptive closed about meeting up, we arranged to meet at 7, at 5 she cancelled citing problems with a friend. I said something along the lines of: No worries hope you get whatever sorted out. Let me know when you want to rearrange and I'll see if I'm free.
I left it at this, got a text yesterday asking how I was and about the cat, sent a reply about 2 hours later. No reply.
Earlier I was walking down to the local pub with one of my mates, looking scruffy as fuck. I suddenly hear my name, look across the road and it's her. Can't remember exactly what was said, but I said something like: Hi, how it's going, cool, so where's my reply? To which I got sorry I've been busy, I'll speak to you soon, with a wave.

Now this is where my dilemma lies, do I try and follow this up, or shall I just leave it, if she gets back in contact cool, if not ah well.
I'd already written her off when she cancelled on me. I would just think fuck it, but my friend, who is very much a natural, told me I'm being a dick if I don't try and follow up.

What are your thoughts guys?

Cheers,
Drew

[daleinthedark]

Firstly - aren't you supposed to see her kitten?

Well if it was me I'd look at it from 2 POVs

If you are looking for something a little deeper, she's funny, attractive, you had a connection and you want it to go further I'd give her 1 more shot. Throw her a text saying something like "hey hows tricks? So lets settle that coffee debate this week (or weekend but give her a timeframe), i think you're [insert a specific appropriate compliment here]. Let me know xx" That way you're letting her know that you're still wanting to see her, you are attracted to her but you'll move on if she doesn't reply.

If however you are looking just for sex then I'd leave it. Essentially you would be chasing her and giving her the "power" when there are hundreds of girls out there to chase.
That said if it's pussy worth chasing then you aint got naught to lose by sending her a text either you get it or you don't, you won't have anything to lose...