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26-07-2011, 06:44 PM
Wassup ppl cbg here, I really need some advice as i'm meeting a very special girl in a couple of days who i haven't seen in like a year and a half, you guys know the one I'm talking about... that one you never went out with physically but are married with two lovely children and a big house in the suburbs in your imagination (lol just kidding).
Don't really wanna bore you guys with a back story so all I'll say is we were good friends for quite a while, and back then I was quite shy and less confident then i am now. Anyway there's a little get together of a mutual friend who i also haven't seen in a while which were both going to on Friday and i'm not really sure how to act or what to say around her. Should i try to game her? or just leave it alone? I'm really not too sure. any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. . p.s I know this means I'm still not over one itis so any advice on getting over this would also be welcome.     
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26-07-2011, 07:12 PM
1) Interact with her how you normally would, but if you are now feeling more confident I guess you would be interacting with other people as well and she might notice the change in your personality (positive of course)
OR 2) Just go for broke - after all, you haven't seen her for 18 months 'The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them' - Ted Nace
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26-07-2011, 07:22 PM
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I will tell you getting out of friend zone by just being confident is not going to happen and you can't make her jealous if you're in friend zone because there is obviously no attraction. Nobody is going to knock you for having oneitis we've all had it at some point or still get it. Show her that you have your life together, show her higher value, tease her much more than you would as a friend, the list is endless, but play it however you feel you want to, but thinking you can go from friend to boyfriend by just being confident and no attraction built is a fools paradise. personally, I'd keep her as friend and move on. Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her. It’s the only way to get good Top 10 ebooks | Flaking | Revitalizing Old Numbers | Cold Reading Pussy | Being a Challenge to Women
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26-07-2011, 07:22 PM
Thanks guys that's what I keep telling myself after 18 months its definitely worth a shot. But the problem is I got so stuck in the friend zone that we kinda develop a brother sister relationship which is why I definitely don't want to go back to the way things were, but I'm too scared to try to game her because it would be kinda weird considering the way we used to act around each other.
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26-07-2011, 08:01 PM
I think you wanna try....
Okay, first off mindset, get rid of thoughts of your sister, that will fuck you over good and proper, she's just a girl with tits and an arse. Assume its on, make no reference to past events, you don't want assocaiation, let her see your confidence but don't try to impress her or seek approval, take charge. if you go for it, it has to start within the first 5 seconds and the pace HAS to continue, 'Hey you're late, I said xx, you're buying the drinks now' big grin, hit her with kino in sexual places rather than safe area's. or just keep her as cool friend and move on find another 20 girls Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her. It’s the only way to get good Top 10 ebooks | Flaking | Revitalizing Old Numbers | Cold Reading Pussy | Being a Challenge to Women
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