Stuck!
 

A while back I posted this thread after a Bank Hol weekend of sarging:

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/psychology...g-nowhere.html

The time away doing other stuff has done me good, however a lot of interactions since then are progressing like this:

1) Open

2) Get the chat going

3) Kino

4) Think to myself 'Escalate', then delay pulling the trigger, moment is lost....AAARGH!

It's weird, it's like I know what should happen next but there is a mental block, which I suspect is fear of failure having already done some of the hard work. I even know the exact point when I should have attempted to close, which makes it even more frustrating!

Did anyone else reach this stage, and if so how did you eventually overcome it?

you're worried about losing the comfort you've already built.

just say it. get the number. ask her to come to yours.

you have to let go of the outcome.

when you think this is the time go with your instinct.

Be the reckless gambler!!

What kino you using.... i find using this kino helps alot.... you get so close to a kiss its alot easier to go for it....

Point to your cheek, dont say anything and wait for a kiss... then point to your other cheek and let her kiss you there...... then point to your lips and let her kiss you there. Works like a charm!!!

Never under estimate the hugging and then pulling away saying, "oh thats enough im not a sex object".

Smell her neck, sniff like your a bit curious then go up to her neck and smell her.... dont speak just nod as though your approving of the scent. If she says "what u doing" or something like that reply.... "ahhh nothing". Though if you havent built enough comfort they might get wierded out by this...

Tell her to bite your neck... i know this might sound strange but this is easier and less daunting for her to do than kissing you. An if she says no you can always say shit like "yea i suppose its best not 2, it looks like you sharpen those teeth on a stone, jesus that was a close 1"........ obviously theres a million and 1 replies to that.

Massages are a good one as well, get her to rub your back

AJay

I like the sharpen on a stone line.

lol go check out the thread i just posted!

AJay